Is he interested or just friendly?

[Lucielu1]

Long story short, I go to my gym every morning same time for the past two years. There is this guy I’ve noticed for several months now that is always there and a few months ago he asked what happened to my knee because I used to wear a brace, and I heard it Playing ice hockey so we got into talking a few days after that he told me his name I told him mine rude wave say hi every day. He usually starts the conversations. For instance, there’s a day when women’s hockey was on TV he came right over and said I had it. I know you were gonna watch that sometimes she says oh you’re killing it after I’m done with my workout things like that. I also noticed he does Glance over at me a lot but sometimes we work out right next to each other and not have a conversation at all. I know a few times he said he went to see a hockey game and he thought of me last week he said he was going to go to a playoff game With his company but then it felt through and he didn’t know who to ask to go and I feel like it away that was hinting that saying it for me to go I don’t know maybe I’m reaching. I think maybe sometime guys and maybe girls don’t wanna come off creepy in the gym, but I definitely think in a lot of ways he is flirting, but maybe I’m wrong Which is I talked to so many people at the gym and with him I get like nervous and I don’t really see him talking to anyone not really sure what I should do if anything at all

[Oliverlogan263]

Here's what I think based on what you described:

It sounds like this guy is at least interested in you! A few signs that point to that:

- He's consistently the one starting conversations with you over months, not just polite small talk but asking follow up questions.

- Noticing and commenting on things like your hockey interests shows he pays attention to you.

- The possible invite to the playoff game seems like a hint he wants to spend time with you outside the gym.

- Glancing your way a lot and sometimes working out right near you even without talking shows he likes being close to you.

As for next steps, I'd say gently feel it out a bit more. Smile and say hi when you see him to keep the friendly vibe going. If he asks how your day is going, take that as your opening to casually ask about his too.

See if he wants to grab a coffee after a workout sometime when you're both free. Going somewhere more relaxed could help break the "gym nerves" on both sides.

Who knows, maybe you'll hit it off! But take it slow and have fun getting to know each other better first. Let me know how it goes! Fingers crossed for ya.

[DryGermanGuy]

Not making a move in two years should tell you everything you need to know!

[Anonymous]

You keep asking minor variations of the same question. Why?

[Lucielu1]

Have you ever given any advice to any of them figured it was a long time since I posted figured I would try again

[eagle1951]

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