Is he interested or just being friendly?

[Lucielu1]

I have been talking to this guy at the gym for several months now and we just talk about random things. I hurt my arm months ago and he would say I don’t want to look all cute on the beach wearing a brace and comment on how tiny I am. But recently we still talk but not as much.
The other day he said my hair looks like and he pays attention to detail I told him I’m going out to lunch with a friend. The next day he asked how the lunch went and told me bars he goes to and said I should go but never actually asked me to go with him. But here’s the thing he told me months ago he’s getting a divorce and that he and his wife are separated but will still say his wife so that’s confusing. Then I see him today and he didn’t come to and talk to me so I’m just confused. He’s giving me mixed signals I feel.

[Stevefiveo]

He sounds like he wants you but he has no game because he was married. He is definitely hinting that he wants you to meet him at the bar. He maybe referring to his wife and his wife because the divorce is not final yet. If you want him, then go for it but you might have to take the lead because he is so out of practice dating.

[Lucielu1]

Yeah I mean he’s definitely hitting on me I just am waiting for him to make a move

[Stevefiveo]

Yeah, he might not be ready to make a move yet. He might want some time to be single after his divorce.

[Lucielu1]

That is true… the past 2 days he’s just waved and smiled at me 🤷‍♀️

[Stevefiveo]

Yeah, when I got divorced my future exwifes friend made a move on me that I couldn't resist.

[Wise4myage]

After this long, Id say he's just being friendly.

[Wise4myage]

Or he would have asked you out already.

[Lucielu1]

I tend to agree with you but I still feel he might be a little interested and possibly flirting.

[Wise4myage]

Then consider asking him out? Or mention being tired of the single life.