I have been with this guy for 4 months. He used to compliment and express his feelings in the beginning. He used to say that he doesn't talk to any girl and he will always be loyal to me.. But just after getting into the relationship everything changed. He didn't even reply my love you's texts and didn even say those words himself.. I saw him addressing me as 'that girl' with his female friends while addressing them as 'she' 'her' and by their names..
I was feeling like something is not right in my gut.. One day we were on a date he asked to look at my phone I gave him and when I asked for his phone he said 'no' for 4/5 times and finally gave it to me.. I saw him texting as "Hi beautiful",'Hey cutie", 'Hey Gorgeous' , to 4/5 girls. . There were other messages too (which was last sent by him and that girl had just seen but not replied) but I got so pissed off with those texts that I didn see other messages. I too saw some dirty talk like him saying 'banana' to his female bestie..
After confronting him he said those girls were just his friends about whom he had never talked about with me. He said he was just being friendly with them. I too asked if I made mistakes , if he was unhappy with him but he just answered no. I thought he was just in love with me but seeing him giving others attention just broke my heart I felt betrayed coz I trusted him blindly..
I was crying a lot but he didn't say sorry. He was just saying you don't trust me what's next? he was laughing and saying you are overthinking or over reacting.. You are too weak you need to be strong.. I asked him you don't care about if I stay or go , do you? He said yes i don't care to my face. I had my exams the day after. He didn't care about my feelings.. I was so helpless.. He didn't asked for any chances or was not sorry should I stay or leave?
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You're better off ending things now. Your gut is right. The red flags are all over. You are barely dating and already dealing with this? It's impossible to build a strong relationship without trust and it will only get worse.
I would encourage you to move on. This is not what a relationship should feel like. I'm sorry.
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I am truly sorry for what you are feeling. I've been there. It just eats away at you, while the other person is seemingly unbothered.
It might not feel like it now, but I mean it when I say it shouldn't feel that way. I promise there is someone better out there that will show you what a loving relationship is supposed to feel like.
Hang in there girl. 💓
Yes it's very difficult to bear this pain especially when the person you love so much doesn't seem to care. Anyways it's difficult but I'm gonna end things now. Thanks for those beautiful words girl ❤️
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