Hey guys
so i visit my my grabdparents odten adn the ydrige me crazy. I am 21 year old female never had a relationship before.
i graduated recently from high school and just started staudying at university. All they keep asking me is about boys.
Especially my grandmother are there any boys? How many boys are there? Do you see oeope making out and holding hands at uni campus?
and my grandpa even drives me more insane. I have a plush animal i really like to cuddle and he always comments you should be helding a boys hand by now. Look around on the boys market. I can't believe you dont find a guy for yourself. Other girls have like 4-5 boys by now. You are just in your room studying thats not gonna lead anywhere, sou will study better when you have a boyfriend
so i dont hahe aboyfriend yes and even if i had one i wouldn't tell them (wich i think is acceptable). I think its extremley rude putzing so much pressure on me as i am already scared i could end up alone and wish secretly having a boyfriend. At the same time i dont think i would study better cause i would get boy crazy lol i know myself. Telling me all the time you are 21 and you need a guy is in my opinion very toxic from him
I never knwo how to respond. I just ignore him most of the time. Trsut me even saying something he would just speak back. He can act unbelievable sometimes.
i am curious about dour opinion and how i should feel about this (cause this DOES put a lot of ofessure on me)
i also think its not how he thinks how this works like i ho out and BOOM boyfriend. A relationship requires a lot of efforts and you have to gind someone who is really compatible
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Omg than you for this question First if all
I'm always in a hurry so I voice text no punctuation no proofreading I just clicks in.
So everyone in a while I run back in to my answer and say WTF Does that say.
I can't even understand it.
And I get messages from people that say WHAT ? Did that say or
Ever heard a punctuation.
I always say okay I apologize and I will get better at it
sometimes I do sometimes I don't
And not to give you a hard time or anything. As a matter of fact I'm here to thank you. Because I'm really interested in what you have to say
It was just hard to read and now I know what other people are going through or trying to tell me so for that I thank you I mean a lot
Now to answer your question I think your grandparents mean well they're probably getting up there in age and they want to make sure that you're taken care of
I understand where your at will all of it
But put yourself in there shoes ..
But at the sametime they might not be that old.
Maybe they got together at an early age and never got to experience anyone else before they got married and they want to live it though you damn forgot the question lmao anyway here this for now
Ad me so I can find this question again please
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with you. It's understandable that you feel pressured and frustrated with your grandparents' constant comments about your relationship status. It's important to remember that you are still young and you have plenty of time to find the right person. Your focus right now should be on achieving your goals, studying hard, and enjoying your hobbies and interests.
It's perfectly okay to not have a boyfriend at your age and it's not anyone else's business but yours. You don't owe anyone an explanation about your personal life, including your grandparents. You should feel free to express how their comments make you feel and set boundaries if necessary. Let them know that you are not comfortable discussing your love life with them and that you would appreciate it if they could respect your privacy.
At the end of the day, it's important to remember that you are in control of your own life and you should do what feels right for you. Don't let anyone pressure you into doing something you're not ready for or that you don't want to do. Focus on your own happiness and everything else will fall into place in due time.
at least he's alive, take every minute you can with him
Ofcourse why wouldn't i
I just asked about this soecific isse