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I mean I know for fact it means men not wanting to pursue marriage or relationship and just live for themselves. I heard that marriage and long term relationships are no different to prostitution apparantly... which kind of scares me to make any commitment with a women in future :-/ like if we get married or half way in a long term relationship she will control me and when am not doing what she wants she divorces me and takes all my money. How can i trust them? It could ruin my life. i mean could a man actually play the field and sleep with escorts all his life or is their no difference? It's kind of worrying especially when your friends and family don't see you with a spouse an ask you why then your having to tell them. Is it true that I could ruin my life? According to MGTOW group they say I will.

Can someone give me advice because am confused whether I should go MGTOW or have a relationship... am not bothered what your answers are just please slap me in the face with the truth all am asking so I can decide what to do if I should go through with it. Am 23 an never been in a relationship so don't know anything about this stuff but friends and family are gonna ask questions to say why I ain't got a women and what am I meant o say... naa dad I chose to Hook with escorts and date rest of my life. I would appreciate your honesty GAG

The problem is am short at 5 foot 6 (which is a major turn off to women), average looking an build. Plus with societys expectations in todays world its just too hard of a competetion unless your tall and goodllooking or average height with good looks or money etc etc, well I dont have to say you know the score. Women want too much that I just can't offer like money, looks and its exhausting that i just dont want to chase women anymore because its making me feel empty inside with all these rejections.

I look after my self by dressing smart, styling my hair, work out and have general confidence around them and most women like my sense of humour to make them laugh and enjoy my company but they just dont find me sexually attractive or appealing because i dont look like what a ideal man should look like in a womens eyes and I know this because of all the nice looking lads that are bigger than me just have to say hi or make eye contact to get their attention and their the lads that get approached. I have never been in a relationship before just only one night stands and at 22 have just learned to enjoy my own company to be fair. So deep down am not alone or anything... its just the people that make you feel alone which am seeing quite clearley right now.

All am saying is there's only so much I can do to make my self look better like how I dress, workout whatever and none of them seem to work the only solution I have is to focus on making more money to attract and yeah i know its horrible to say that but in this life some people have to make do with the cards their dealt with. Am not asking for your pity just the solution to my question because am lost on what to do on this scenario... like i said dont pity me because I have good friends, family that love me and finacially secure with qualifications so am not that bad, am just a very a unlucky man in some parts of my life which I can't control much over of.

I would appreciate your honesty and time

Thanks everyone