Search Results: adding friends on here

They say that you can't pick ur biological parents and siblings.

What/How do feel / think about your daily life with such circumtances (esp. the bad ones)

You can select whom you want to be friends with but you can't force them to be.
⬆see the pattern? It's similar to the first one.

So , what do u think about friendship? What exactly it is and why people want it when there's really no freedom in it - it's like a contract subconsciously or consciously - and temporary.

Now with the realizations above , here a poll..
Would you rather prefer having ur own little. circle of family & friends virtually or the current one that you already had?

NB : Don't forget to add ur opinion as well.

Let's start the poll !!!

Long story my boyfriend is Irish, I am from the states he lives here. I noticed he started following this pretty girl on Instagram thought nothing of it until one of our mutual friend did you see who he followed. She explained

This girl was apparently someone he dated who he was crazy about and even though it’s been 4 years he always tries to get back in contact with her. They seem to fight fall out then reconnect.

Anyway I let it go because no point working myself up but he left his phone on the bed and messages started coming in from her.

Asking him did he mean to add her, I know I shouldn’t have but I looked at the messages, he said that he had been thinking about her and added her. She replied saying she had been thinking about him a lot lately aswell. She asked would he ever come home and he said maybe which really has hurt me.

The thing that really hurt was she made a joke about how could put up with a high maintenance American girl while she said it in a humorous way, his reply was yeah they’ll never be on the same level as you.

I don't know what to do? Could he just be homesick but friends are saying he shouldn’t even be texting her. The last time they apparently spoke was 2 years ago so I can’t understand why he to keep getting in contact.