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So...
Back a few days ago I had a dream if went like this :
"I was visiting someone and I did see my stupid grandmother in my dream
And we were in the kitchen
My phone rings and my boyfriend said that he is gonna break up with me because he found someone else and while I was on the phone he started kissing
I started bawling "

Now let me tell y'all
I will say this yes we has our ups and downs yes our relationship is in the dumps right now but it is because of me... but I am right now getting some help and gonna make out relationship strong , and healthy so we can be together And yes I've been extremely afraid that he Wil break up with me

Last night I had a dream where I woke up this morning and covered in sweat and had to catch my breath.. this is what happened in the dream :
My boyfriend and I were laying down and I was asking him about cheating and when we were talking he said" baby u know I would " then he paused " never cheat on you " I said i hope you promised that etc... Well David ( my boyfriend friend ) I was asking how he was and asking if my boyfriend was breaking up with me.. and he was shaking his head and crying and saying yes I looked at my boyfriend and I asked him if that is true he looked at me and said yes he was just using me.. so I am thinking wtf I asked him why when I was crying. Boyfriend said "because you don't watch , you are bad at kissing , making love , and etc.. and I just wanna used you for sex and yes I did cheat on you "
While crying David comes around and chokes the shit out of my. Boyfriend and kills him and drags him away.. I was packing and getting ready to leave I could go and stay at my friend house. Next thing I know I saw my boyfriend back alive again and he was whistling and cleaning and he also said that my brothers are killed. 😭😢☹🙁😞😔😕
So that is the end of the dream... but my boyfriend has been but awsome to me he saved Me , he takes great care of me , he loves me for who I am and so much more 😀
But omg why in the hell would I have that dream? 🤔
I gotta say of all of the dreams I had this is far more scarriest

We’ve been dating for 5 weeks. He is 33. I am 23. He is recently split from his wife and has a 2 year old boy. He is from a Spanish country.

Reason #1: He KEEPS talking about having a KID with me

I don’t even know if I want a kid. Or to be married. Never even brought it up with previous boyfriends. But this guy almost every time we see each other brings up that he will one day be the father to my child, we’d make pretty babies, etc. I say to him EACH time that I don’t want a child anytime soon, maybe when I’m 30. He will say okay but then brings it up anyways. And he told me recently he had a dream he had a little girl with me and that his dreams “usually come true.” I was worried about my period coming, and he kept saying well if you’re pregnant what will we do, and that he is against abortion and would love to have a child with me. When it came I was so excited and when I messaged him saying OMG it came! He just said “cool” and seemed disappointed.

Reason #2: Language, cultural, and age barrier

I notice a lot that I’ll make a reference, joke, etc and there will be crickets on his end because he doesn’t understand it. It takes joy out of things because I’ll enjoy something or even want to talk about something and he just literally won’t understand what I’m saying. Since he only moved here a few years ago, and speaks primarily Spanish, there is a lot he doesn’t understand or he didn’t grow up with that is a disconnect for us.

Reason #3: He talks about himself A LOT

We went out to dinner last night for example, and he dominated 85% of the conversation. And it’s usually about him because he thinks he’s so special. Literally, I’ll be talking and he will talk over me and carry on about himself, his belief or experience. It has gotten to be that I’m sitting there just saying yeah and nodding my head. It’s as if he doesn’t even want to hear about my life or experiences unless it has to deal with him or has any effect on him.

Are these reasons enough?

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