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The same girl in my HS hates me for the longest. We're now HS seniors.

Ever since 7th grade, she would start with her rude remarks, spread false rumors, ridicule me in the class and her group of friends would isolate me. It got to the point, she literally wanted to fight me. I only replied back with a punch once. We were threatened with a suspension, she starts crying, fakes an apology and supposedly that was it. Nope, she proceeded to faking a friendship just to avoid trouble, along with giving me a fake number and fake address.

By the following year, she would continue with the rude comments or scream ''OMG or EWWW'' in disgust. I had enough and just recently told her ''OMG nothing, you got a problem with me again, we can fix this right now and this time I don't give a damn if I we get suspended. In fact I'm looking forward for it. And don't be crying crocodile tears.'' She said nothing but walked away.

Honestly, can our gender be worse bullies than guys? If this was between guys, they fight, get it solved and that's it. Either they become friends or ignored each other but at least have some level of respect. They go on into faking friendships nor apologies. She kept going on with that hate for 5 years and we're nearly adults by now.

He has a crush on me but I found out that his dream girls and his former crushes (he was obsessed with) were all tall skinny blondes while I am a short Asian girl.

I think he thinks I don’t like him because I ignored his obvious stares and now suddenly stopped. I hesitate to approach him because Im afraid that I’ll not be good enough and always Second best to him while he to me is the most handsome man I’ve seen and totally my type.

I also know that he doesn’t have much relationship experience and since I am also so different from his dream girl type I am afraid that he sees me as an experiment or a stepping stone to better women. What do you think and what should I do?

I get the USA is a Patriarchy but COME ON. I thought we made progress? There’s still too many men and women excusing older men who clearly MOST YOUNG WOMEN ARE NOT INTERESTED IN going after and HARASSING them. So many of these damn “sugar daddy” relationships are just cover ups and the guy is with underages girls in private and “legal” (their favorite word) girls in public. I’m tired of you WEIRDOS defending these creepy men going after women who could be THEIR DAUGHTERS. Why does it keep being ignored that MOST YOUNG WOMEN DONT WANT TO MESS WITH OLDER MEN? The majority of us who DONT want to have to deal with these creeps going after us because y'all make it seem like it’s ok and ITS NOT. And again, many of these older men who date younger women in public are PEDOS IN PRIVATE. This is the TRUTH.

I heard it’s black women but I wasn’t so sure if it’s true or not. My friends (two are white, one Latina) gets hit on or pursued but I get ignored. I’m black and dark skinned. I never get flirted or get asked out in a date…. well I’ve been in ONE date and it went well but this guy bluntly told me in my face that he had a wonderful time with me but he can’t go forward or see himself in the future with me because he isn’t attracted to black ladies. He’s white. He was a very sweet and funny guy. I don’t care about race or her the guy looks like but most guys prefer non black girls. Even this guy (he’s black) back in high school rejected me and went out with a biracial girl.