Guys, Why do you ignore a girl you adore?

[Anonymous]

Do you sometimes ignore a girl you really like because you know you’re not ready? Like you know your life isn’t in a good spot so you don’t want to drag her into it but yet always know that girl was everything?

[kmg9150]

Its foolish for anyone to see someone as a “everything”, especially before dating. The thing is that men are putting less effort into courting women. Factors: Social Media (womens options are tenfold +), he's not interested in a full time relationship, he's got other interests and goals to reach, doesn't really adore, womens liberated equality role destruction ideology, could be an a whole, could be gay. You could ask him or make the first move.

[Lliam]

I never ignored a girl that I adored if she also liked me.

It's not like I would only date a girl if I thought I was sure I wanted to marry her. I would have to be in a relationship with her for a long time to know that. And if I waited until my life was in a perfect spot, I would never have had any girlfriends at all.

[normalice]

If I know there is zero chance with a girl who I find particularly attractive, I'll often avoid her to avoid keep my monkey brain from getting its hopes up.

[Anonymous]

Because women aren't interested in guys who are nice and give them attention.

[Anonymous]

You get what you give. I don't care how much I like her. If she gives nothing she gets nothing.

[Anonymous]

I did that with personal issues I couldn't say with quiet a few girls

[NathanDavis]

I don't do that

[BarryLiverstone]

Feels like you are asking about a crush