Guys why do you spontaneously ignore a girl out of the blue for no reason?

[Anonymous]

Its very cowardice and rude! I seem to get that a lot. Ill meet a guy get his number then out of the blue he will stop texting me or calling me even when I'm the first to write or call. If you don't like us why don't you just say so? We are human too not vampires. Its ridiculous. I met this guy last week who invited me over his house he said I had an attitude because I said he was being disrespectful to me. and then we settled our differences. but now he has been ignoring me.

[Anonymous]

ive been in your shoes once the aggressive side of a girl comes out, guys get scared and think your too dramatic and not laid back so they run away and disappear. happened to me too. its strange, because in my heart I really like him and actually I love him, but when he does things that make me mad like disrespect you described, I wanna stand up for myself and give him a piece of my mind hoping he would be more sincere next time, but all it does is drive men away. they assume were bitches and run off even though we were the ones that were insulted and disrespected.

ive learned that sometims its for the best, when a guy doesn't value your emotions and doesn't respect you and doesn't understand why you were upset in the first place, he doesn't care to work things out to keep you around, then he doesn't understand you at all and is emotionally not attached to you. so its best you both go separate ways. sometimes people just don't click and bump heads, you may be attracted to each other but not understand ones emotions and that's the killer of most relationships and marriages.

[SwimmerGuy]

Yeah I see this being possible. I think its just something you have to handle delicately. Maybe you need to look at it from his perspective first, realize he probably thought nothing of it. You should bring it up with him, but don't lambaste him too vigorously. Chances are he had no idea that it would bother you.

[Kain6th]

it's usually pretty clear if she has an attitude problem. I mean if all she really does is be angry and moody, what guy wants that?

[Asker]

the guy I was talking to told me I need to give him space. I no longer text him. I agree, I should leave him alone.

[cavmanier]

When you meet new people they tend to be different than how they initially led on to be. They may want to have a good time one night or they are just scared to be serious with someone or you are 1 of 10 girls he's talking to. You can't take people serious when your dating them.

[Asker]

yea I know two girls who talk about him,but they don't know how he really is.

[cavmanier]

guys can be diks ehh

[Asker]

well I gave him a piece of my mind. I told him he was fake, and I could get a better looking guy with a better personality than him. I wonder how he will react to that

[WeaponZero]

I don't. But yes you put him off because he thought you had an attitude and he can't tell the difference between you having a backbone or being blunt and being a bitch. Apparently some people can't tell the difference.

[Anonymous]

You answer your own question... He feels like you have an attitude... He's not feeling you. So he's just not that into you.

[Asker]

he said we were cool

[Opinion Owner]

OK so yesterday he said you were cool and you are suppose to meet him today? So did you expect him to call or text you all last night, or was he ignoring you in person or something? =S

[Asker]

He text me 2 nights ago saying we were cool. I know he is ignoring me for a fact. But I told him that I was sorry and that I'm not going to make him like me. I also told him there are other guys houses I can go over instead. He is ignoring me through text and calling

[Opinion Owner]

So now you're telling me you basically threaten that you would go to "other guys" houses if he's not paying attention to you over 1 day. God, he was right about you. You sound absolutely delightful. =|

[Asker]

well no I tried to send him that message but it failed. and I told him that he's fake because he was nice to me over the phone but rude to me in person

[Kain6th]

Kill the attitude and maybe he'll stop ignoring you. I would ignore you too from that description.

[Asker]

i apologized to him yesterday and he forgave me. he kept bugging me to come over his house. I told him I would today but he still has been ignoring me since.

[SwimmerGuy]

It doesn't really matter that you apologized. He knows you act that way now, and he's turned off. I guess it'll just have to be one of those live and learn things.

[Asker]

he says I need to give him space. he was mad because I called him out for disrespecting me. I guess he not use to girls standing up for themselves. he's an a**hole and he's not even cute. more like my mistake