Why would you ignore a girl, for no reason?

[KezHarris]

Why would you ignore a girl for no reason?

If she's done nothing to you, why would you avoid her?

All she's done is say hi to you and you don't know her very well, why would a guy ignore her? 🤔🤔


There's this guy who's friends with my friends, he's nice to everyone, but ignores me. I have no idea why. But i sometimes catch him staring at me and he definitely listens to my conversations with other people, because he goes and talks to others about what i said. Its so strange.

You heard something bad about her / don't like her

You like her, but you're too scared to talk to her / nervous.

Arrogance: You think you're BETTER than her.

Your friend (s) fancy her

Your friends don't like her

[r4ngeF]

What you talk about is mostly referred as "The model syndrome".
There is a reason why people who are considered "mediocre" will marry more, and will have more relationships with those who are much better looking than them.

The effect is very simple, and most guys will agree to it I guess:
When you see someone who *you* find as "very" beautiful... Or very smart... or anything that is "VERY" something...
You will have cold feet.
With models its easier to explain, because when beauty becomes a "consensus", you will mostly never address those women, basing this "thought" on the fact of "wow, she's gorgeous, why would she look at me"...
Those little talks in your head will definitely cause you to ignore someone who is drawing attention.

I can say it for myself, everytime I used to hangout with people, and all of a sudden a woman came around and drew attention in such an absolute way, I didn't even look at her, and kept my eyes off, just not to give her the "privilege" of "all eyes on me".

[r4ngeF]

Thanks..

[Logorithim]

When I was your age, the only girls I ignored when they tried to talk to me were known sluts, which isn't the case here. I didn't want the normal girls thinking I was interested in the sluts or, worse, that I had fooled around with them.

[KezHarris]

It seems like most the guys i know are always talking to the sluts

[Logorithim]

Then they only want sex

[Logorithim]

There is no other reason to get involved with a slut.

[btbc92]

He may be attracted to you but hates knowing that he does. It's more physical and nothing more. He also doesn't want to lead you on. And guys often do that to find out how he feels first. If his crush is just fickle or it's serious. Guys don't want to take the unnecessary risk unless he is certain. It's mostly a personality thing. But most guys do that more than girls unless she is shy and conservative.

[Anonymous]

Dont listen to anyone here who's bashing. Since you have common friends, try to find a natural situation so you can be introduced to him. With time, he will know you and you will have your answer. Also, he will become comfortable with you so if he is ignoring you because he is shy then he will stop doing that. Good luck!

[DECENTSCOTTISHLAD999]

This sounds very strange to me l just don't know whats going on in your life it seams to always be the same pattern maybe the guys are afraid to talk with you for some reason as you are very nice looking l don't know whats putting them of you its maybe as you are a very strong minded young woman l just don't know?

[capncool]

I wouldn't ignore a girl unless I had a reason for it. Generally it would be because I find her annoying or I don't like her.

[MannMitAntworten]

Might just have a strange way of trying not to display obvious interest. That's my guess if he is inquiring about your conversation. Bizarre behavior, but bizarre seems to be the modern normal.

[SarahsSummer]

he's probably attracted to you but shy or thinks you are out of his league

[murdanyc916]

skin color... just yuck!

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I want be friends with her and take things more but
afraid to make a move due to being nervous.

[MackToday]

He could be a bit taken with you. Girls you're attracted to can be scary.

[winterfox10]

I probably would have heard something bad about her.

[taleswapper]

There's always a reason. You just haven't figured it out yet.

[WhereAmI]

I saw her bum and said to myself “Not good enough”?😂

[TallAnon]

Either I fancy her, or I don't care about her, or we never really got introduced, or, or, or.. This could be a variety of different things..

[Liam_Hayden]

If I ignore her it is because something about her strikes as being rude or stuck up.

[clampfan101]

I may avoid out of shyness but that is not ignoring her.

[HereIbe]

If there is no reason, then THAT IS THE REASON. IT IS FOR NO REASON!

[GreenGold1992]

It could be any one of these options, just depends on the individual person

[GreenGold1992]

In my case, it'd be A or B

[loveslongnails]

I wouldn't do that. I don't give a shit what other people think about someone. I form my own opinions.

[Anonymous]

Maybe he just finds it awkward to try to talk to you.

[humanearth]

He could have a girlfriend. Or he has a crush on her or both has a girlfriend and has a crush on you

[Anonymous]

I have little to nothing to expect from women at this point in life, other than trouble.

I'm done with being humiliated.

[Thatsamazing]

None of the above-- I'm not attracted to her. That would be the only reason.