Ok so why would a girl purposely ignore avoid you?

[Anonymous]

Girl coworker new girl ignored me purposely all week avoided me but chatted to all the other people I work with

Even saying hi to some of girls I'm with working and ignoring me

Then I catch her keep staring at me from corner of my eye from a distance

And when no co-workers are about she keeps tryin to stare at me alone

So I looked back one day and she starts twirling her hair and sucking her two lips together

Whyyyy?

[zayndan]

If she ignores u on purpose, obviously you will notice that. So that's a way of getting your attention. Secondly, now that she has your attention, and you are aware she exists, she gives you signs for you to know that she wants you to approach her. If you do, you will get through. Based on what you said though, not someone I would personally be interested in. God bless

[Asker]

Thanks but when I stared back she twirled her hair started sucking her lips
It's confusing cause I ignored her back all week too mainly because too many coworkers cause shit but keep catching her glancing
But whyyy games

[zayndan]

What? U want her to come up to u and ask you out? Not all girls are forward like that, but at least appreciate that she's giving you clear signs. If you're interested, talk to her. If you continue to ignore her, she'll think you're not interested, and you'll lose your opportunity

[Asker]

So she's into me? can't figure out that mainly

[zayndan]

YES SHE IS. How can't you not see that after she's given u all the signs?

[zayndan]

If you're gona talk to her though, have some confidence about it. Please.

[Asker]

I have confidence. I'm just confused a girl completely ignores everyone but me.
Tha is for the help tho will def talk now since u think she likes me

[zayndan]

All the best. Hope u succeed my friend! 😄

[Asker]

👍👍🤣

[zayndan]

How did it go?

[Asker]

Not good I found out I'm working opposite times to her next few weeks 😂 so I might get to say hello bumping into her once

[Asker]

Only 😭gonna have to hold off

[zayndan]

Shucks. Just don't let the tea get cold. Drink it while it's still hot. If u know, u know

[Asker]

I'm pissed

[zayndan]

On the bright side, if by the time u see her she loses interest, then she probably wasn't srs, and just wanted to eat a food. If she's still interested, den her feelings for u are strong. So don't get emotional 🤣 just let life do its thing

[Asker]

👍she still in same office something will happen in time 😂

[Gingerbread_GB]

You can try to draw conclusions from body signals, but they are not very reliable. You might be misinterpreting certain things. You can try strike up a conversation with her, ask about work, life etc and get a feel for it yourself.

[Summeroflove]

Well. She probably just doesn’t like you. Just leave her alone. If it’s professional and she’s avoiding you when you need to talk. Speak with management.



If someone won’t talk to you. They’re not worth your time. Just leave them be

[KrakenAttackin]

Leave her alone, you are one call to HR from losing your job. Give her wide clearance.

[EpicSnail]

You know why

[Asker]

? no?

[EpicSnail]

She is attracted to you

[Asker]

Cool thanks she's really hot

[EpicSnail]

Good for you

[In_Trance]

She doesn't like you