I blamed my crush because she used me. Now she is crying?

[Anonymous]

I told my girl crush that she used me to brake up with her Ex boyfriend to be with a another guy. She know that I loved her. But she had mixed feeling for me. Now she is talking and flirting with other guy and ignored me. I got angry and I told her that she used me as a option, she played with my feelings and she is good for nothing and cheap. Then I told her that she used me to break up with her Ex boyfriend to be with this new guy. Now she is crying heavily. I feel bad and what should I do now?

[SueShe]

It was perhaps not the most diplomatic way of telling her that she used you for the purpose of breaking up with her boyfriend.

While theoretically, you ranted at her behavior, you could perhaps have chose other words that would have been less hurting her.

However, misusing friends, acquaintances or family to achieve a goal is certainly not the best thing to do because sooner or later, this will turn against you as it did in your story.

Perhaps that both of you learned a lesson. Hers was not to misuse the others for your own benefit and you, to be a little more diplomatic.

[Asker]

Thank you for the reply 🙏

[SueShe]

No problem.

[PetLover24]

She's crying because you called her out for her rotten behavior. Maybe she is crying because she has a concious. More likely she's crying "poor me" victim tears.

Do yourself the biggest favour & get rid of her. For one not only does she indeed sound cheap & whorish but she has few to little morals on how to treat others in general.

Definite someone who'll drag others into the gutter with her.

[JacobJordan]

Be proud. You stood up for yourself. And you said exactly what needed to be said. She treats you like your feelings don't matter now she knows how that feels. With luck she'll learn from it and become a better woman. Though given today's society I would advise against holding your breath

[AviatorTom]

Why do you feel bad? She did bad things and you called her out on it. Did you not expect her to cry?

Just chill. She'll stop crying... eventually.

[tzdc21]

Don't feel bad. You rightfully told her off. And don't give a damn what she thinks. Because clearly she doesn't do the same for you. And I guarantee she is not wasting her time thinking and moping about how she hurt you. Forget her and find a woman who actually gives a damn about you.

[Al_Musafir]

Typical victim mentality. Get her out of your life. Permanently and for good.

[Asker]

Thank you for the reply 🙏

[Dinklex3]

Let her cry.

People try to make other people feel bad when they’re in the wrong.

[RavVid]

Well you called it the way you saw it. Maybe she didn't do it the way you think she did. Unless you now know think you are mistaken or acted out of unreasonable jealousy then there is nothing to do

[BoopBoopBeep]

You're too old for this kind of drama. Just move on.

[DextroShade]

You shouldn't feel bad at all and she should feel bad. Unless she wants to apologize with her body you should just ghost her and move on with your life.

[Hungryghostwriter]

She sounds like a narcissist. Remove her from your life.

[Anonymous]

Do nothing - do not interact with her, suggest you look up the 'grey rock method'.

She is only using the tears to garner sympathy, because of the blow back she’s receiving after her using you to engineer the break up with her Ex

[KrakenAttackin]

You did the right thing and so what if she is crying. Women cry to manipulate men. Fuck that.

[balyai]

Not your fault. You said the truth. Ignore her

[Asker]

Thank you for the reply 🙏

[balyai]

No worries

[Lisia]

That's a childish reaction from her lol.

[iwannaknowrn]

She’s a narcissist. Leave now

[Daffotul]

move on she's a player

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Crocodile tears

[Cute_potato01]

Walk away

[Iron_Man]

Sorry