Girl I got turned off by asked for my number and asks whether I am seeing anyone girls?

[Anonymous]

So a weird story. I was turned off by a girl because she would flirt with other guys and then come up to me and flirt and then get bored and then go off and flirt with other guys. She was also pretty rude and disrespectful saying I'm petty for not wanting her number, I was short for a guy and that I was lame. Now a couple weeks ago she asked for my number and I said sorry I don't really want it. She called me petty and walked off to another guy. Now I know that these guys messages her a lot, every single day. I started ignoring her because to be honest I was done and didn't want to be disrespected and love cannot be there without respect. She then comes up to me and asks me why I'm purposing ignoring her and say I've been busy and then a week later she asks whether I'm seeing a girl or have a girlfriend but she phrased in a way that didn't seem like on. It was something like 'you're not seeing a girl. So why are you so busy.' I laugh and reply with how would you know. She's clearly attracted in a way maybe it's a friendship even. But any advice on what to do and why is she doing this. I've also noticed her being more attracted when I ignore her more, so it's a weird situation.

[Oliverlogan263]

Sounds like this girl has some issues figuring out what she wants, man. A few thoughts:

- Her disrespecting you and being so rude about the number thing was lame. Don't blame you for not wanting that drama.

- Flirting with other dudes constantly right in front of you was also wack. She clearly likes the attention but doesn't actually wanna commit.

- That she asks for your number later and gets more persistent when you ignore her seems like she digs the “challenge” of chasing what she can’t have. Immature game playing.

- Could be she senses you’re moving on without her and it bruised her ego. Or maybe now that you’re “unavailable” you seem more appealing.

My advice would be to keep doing you. Don’t give her the time of day unless she shows she’s genuinely interested in you. No time for wishy-washy disrespectful games.

Plenty other fish, you feel me? Let her keep orbiting while you do your thing. Ball’s in her court to prove she’s changed. Otherwise, on to the next, bro!

[slatyb]

She likes the attention. Feels like a result of some insecurity-- she needs the attention of others to tell that she is worthy. Dose she have other qualities you admire?

[Asker]

She's intelligent and fun to be around just due to her vibe and she's hot other than that nothing much.

[slatyb]

Have you asked her out? I would.

[slatyb]

Also I would get over the jealousy.

[getwiththepg]

Just keep breadcrumbing her but try to smash