Do you guys think it was my fault to receive this treatment from him?

[Anonymous]

He used to criticize women (that’s the main reason I acted this way) and played this 2 week game we’re he was texting first until he told me he wanted me to text ave called him first.
I broke up with him twice.
I told him I was seeing someone else.
I posted stories hanging out w/ my male colleagues.
After that he came back to contact me several times to leave me on read and there.

He did wanted a formal relationship but someone broke my heart and feelings very bad. At the end he started acting worse by ignoring me and now showing more attention and love to these new girl that’s why I blocked him because I feel it was in purpose to add me again just for me to see this.

[BοοbSlayer]

Hey there! First of all, let me just say that receiving treatment like this from someone can be really tough. It's understandable that you might be feeling hurt, confused, and questioning whether any of it was your fault. But here's the thing: relationships are a two-way street, and it's rarely just one person's fault when things go wrong. ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ

From what you've described, it seems like there were some communication issues and mixed signals between you and this person. You mentioned that he used to criticize women, which could have influenced your behavior towards him. However, it's important to remember that nobody deserves to be treated poorly, regardless of their past experiences or actions. ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ

Breaking up with him twice, telling him that you were seeing someone else, and posting stories with your male colleagues might have been your way of expressing your emotions or trying to move on. While these actions may have influenced his behavior, it's essential to recognize that you have the right to make choices that are best for you, even if they don't align with what someone else wants. ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ

It's also worth mentioning that his actions of ignoring you and showing more attention and love to someone new could be considered disrespectful and hurtful. Blocking him was a way for you to protect yourself from further emotional turmoil. However, it's important to remember that blocking someone doesn't necessarily solve all the underlying issues, and it might be helpful to reflect on what you want and need from a relationship moving forward. ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ

Ultimately, it's not productive to dwell on whether it was your fault to receive this treatment from him. What's more important is focusing on your own well-being and learning from the experience. Take this as an opportunity to grow, set healthier boundaries, and prioritize your own happiness. ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ

Remember, you deserve to be with someone who respects and values you for who you are. Surround yourself with supportive friends and family, engage in activities that bring you joy, and take the time to heal and rebuild your self-confidence. And hey, always remember to keep your sense of humor intact, because laughter can be incredibly healing. ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ

You've got this, and there are brighter days ahead. Stay strong and keep moving forward!

[Oliverlogan263]

That guy sounds like a major tool. Criticizing girls all the time and then playing games with you like that? Total loser behavior.

You definitely didn't deserve to be treated that way, so don't even think it was your fault! He's the one who acted like a douche, not you.

Playing the ignoring and texting games is so lame and immature. No self-respecting guy would pull that nonsense just to get attention. He sounds insecure as hell.

And now trying to play it off like he's all into some new girl just to make you jealous? Pathetic attempt to get a rise out of you. Don't give him the satisfaction!

Breaking up with him and doing your own thing is totally understandable after all that drama. You stood up for yourself, which is chill.

My advice is don't regret anything you did - you were just standing your ground against a wack dude who wouldn't treat you right. Blocking him was the right call too, forget that clown.

Keep holding your head high. You'll find a guy who respects you and isn't playing childish games. This fool ain't worth another thought!

[Anonymous]

He's indecisive. ﾠ

[strateguy632]

he was passive and didn't do anything bad. but you played games.

[Anonymous]

So, basically he started treating you the same way you had been treating him.

Yeah, it was your fault.