Search Results: attracting the wrong guys

Why do I ALWAYS attract older men?

Ever since I was 17, I've been attracting older men. Now I’m 19 and the same pattern continues. It’s weird for me since I’m a very reserved person and not one bit flirtatious. I dress rather modestly, I never wear make-up...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why is he acting this way?

I met this guy Kaden through my brother one night when we had a get together. I was extremely attracted to him and the whole night we ended up flirting. He ended up leaving later on that night and before he left he said...

LeoPride93

Xper 5 Age: 32

Does it make me an evil person that I stole another girl’s boyfriend?

I met this guy at work few months ago, and he immediately told me that he’s in a relationship with a girl he’s in love with, and that just like me he just wants a platonic friendship which is a thing I immediately agreed,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Went on a date with a shorter guy. Is it wrong to not want a second date?

I’m 5’7” and met this guy on an online dating app. He said that his height was 5’9” but he was, at least, a few inches shorter than me when we met in person. I felt really awkward giving him a hug at the end, and walking...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guys, why do I keep attracting the wrong type of girl? How do I stop this?

I don’t mean strippers, drug addicts and crazy women. I mean girls who are married or have boyfriends already! Last night I met this girl at my local bar and took her home with me. This morning she told me she’s...

NativeAlaskan

Xper 5 Age: 33

Is it wrong to be physically attracted to someone whilst in a relationship?

Im not usually one to find someone attractive instantly, they have to grow on me slightly. With my boyfriend i realised i liked him instantly and released i was attracted to him on are second date. Im actually 22 but...

Anonymous

(18-24)

I can attract guys but I can't keep them. What's wrong with me?

So I've always had this problem with dating where a guy will find me physically attractive, find me fun to hang out, and thinks I'm an "amazing" girl. I make them laugh, care for them, understand their emotions, be loyal,...

holly6090

Xper 7 Age: 26

How do I friendzone a guy?

Everyone, girls and guys, please help me! There’s this guy who has been giving very obvious signs that he likes me, and it is very certain that he does. His friends has told me as well, and apparently he is going to...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why do women like to date low life's?

Is it because these girls think so low of them selves? I find that people who think the opposites usually attract one another. Nice good girls hooking up with abusive guy who then turn this once nice girl into a damaged...

ManHater

Yoda Age: 27

I’m 25, straight, but afraid of men whenever it’s more than just friends, what’s wrong with me?

I’ve had one serious relationship and it was a disaster. When I was 23-24, and we were very intimate and I didn’t have issues then? But the relationship turned abusive and I eventually cut all ties. Now I’m trying to date...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How Do I Look?

What do you think about this guy?

Yeah this guy is me and I want to specify a bit. In the last time it feels, that girls/women seem not be attracted to me. It's because of sexdates or smth. Just meet someone and get to know each other, chat a bit or smth....

Tobi_Lerone

Xper 6 Age: 36

I rejected a guy because he was too hot for me? What the hell is wrong with me?

sooo, i'm 21, single all my life. closest i ever got to a guy was a 3 second hug, last year. a hot guy asks me out and i panic. i mean, yay! i've been praying for the past 21 years. and finally, when it happens, i freak...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why do I attract shy/insecure guys?

I'm 21; Ever since college, I've always seemed to attract shy/insecure guys. I don't know why, but I'm just happy I don't attract the guys that just want to mess around with women's feelings. Last year, I remember I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys, am I responsible for my guy friends catching feelings after having sex with them?

I went through a horrible breakup last winter. After two years of being with the guy that I thought was perfect for me, I found out he had been lying to me constantly about cheating on me, using heavy drugs, stealing from...

Anon123456789101112

Xper 4 Age: 29

Is Love and respect and trust and faithfulness a thing of the past?

It just seems that all of a sudden prostitution is accepted , people don’t care about STD’s anymore , almost every girl I meet online that catches my eye wants me to join their OnlyFans etc. to get money from me or they...

Finchie40

Master Age: 48

Girl's Behavior

What are good ways to tell a creep to back off?

For some reason I attract creeps from time to time. What’s a good way to repel them? I’m not really the type to slap guys just because they hit on me. That could lead me being in the wrong rather than the other way...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Flirting

Why are humans beings mostly attracted to people who seem not to be worthy of our time?

I noticed around my group of friends and me included, we are always attracted to that kind of guy who doesn't give us much attention. Of course looks are part of it; but I noticed that girls (and maybe guys as well) are...

LucyPag

Xper 5 Age: 26

Girl's Behavior

Girls, I've noticed more cocky men get women, should a guy personify that attitude to attract more women?

I've noticed the bigger his muscles, the more money he has, the taller he is, but most importantly the cockier he is the more confidence girls/women assume he has. I have been that guy where be respectful, give a girl her...

Anonymous

(30-35)