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My girlfriend Jocelyn does favours for me even though I tell her not to. The reason I tell her not to is because I feel she does these things for the wrong reason. For example, Jocelyn cooks for even after I’ve told her multiple times not to. She says she does it because she wants me to keep my muscular physic. And that If I stopped working out and got fat she’d leave me.

Jocelyn also a bunch of male friends and it makes me uncomfortable. I know these guys wanna sex with her, she even admitted it. I told her numerous times how I feel. She told me that she’s every guy’s fantasy and I’m just insecure. After having numerous fights over the male friends Jocelyn finally said to me “I’ll stop hanging out with guys, since you’re so jealous”.

For the last 3 weeks things were good. She was telling to come over almost every day, constantly telling me she’s happy, how I’m the one etc. Then 2 days ago everything fell apart. She asked me to walk across the street and buy her food and I accidentally bought her the wrong thing.

She was very angry, and I apologized and told her I’m going back to get the right order. She told me she was too mad to eat and not to bother. Then she started complaining she’s been unhappy with the relationship and starts saying telling me I’m lazy and don’t care about her. I asked her why she’d say such a thing.

Jocelyn starts complaining that I don’t know what she wants, and when she wants it. That I don’t pay attention to her needs. And that she shouldn’t have to ask me to do things for her, I should just know. With that being said haven’t spoken to her in 2 days.

What I mean is let say you had found this very nice guy or very nice girl, they are literally everything you have wanted in your ideal woman or ideal man. They gotten your ideal physical look down, they had gotten all of your requirements in which activities you were looking for in a man or woman. Not only that they also happened to be one of the kindest person you had met.
The person who you are dating with want to be able to officially spend the rest of their lives with you, by proposing you you with a very beautiful ring.

Everything has been going great because you managed to find the guy/girl you had always been dreaming of but it could even be better. It turns out you have been selected to protake in the job you had been begging to do. Everything you have been financially and studying for had now officially come to your doorstep, you will have the once and a chance to finally accomplish the career you have been literally preparing for. You have everything you have ever wanted your dream job and your dream partner but here is the problem you can't have both. Remember you fiance has gave you their heart and proposed to you, while your manager or investors have giving you their money and acknowledgement on your financial future. So you come to a big decision, which one seems more important to you, do you prefer spending the rest of your life with your future wife/husband or you really want to hopefully make big money and accept the job you been literally fighting to get? I know this is an extremely shallow answer but I rather take the money over the girl, to me sometimes relationship can either comes and goes but as somebody who was homeless one, I definitely wouldn't want to risk that again, I definitely take the job offer. But how about you ladies and gentlemen, which one do you want love or money?