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I have been seeing a girl once a week for about a month now. We are not in a "relationship" but we have been having steady sex. Based on some of her actions I asked her if she wanted to date "officially" and she said she still wants to get to know me. Oh boy thank god! I didn't really care either way you know? I go with the flow.

Well, I had a couple of public events that I was going to go to by myself. But I felt that the girl (her name is Olivia) would be offended if I was posting all these pictures of an event on my facebook without inviting her. Right? So I invite her to the event.

She started screaming at me last night because I didn't let her come to my apartment at a time that SHE wanted. She works close to my apartment but lives a 30 minute bus ride away. I work a 30 minute bus ride away from my apartment and closer to her place. Anyway, the point is that she is mad at me because I wanted to take a shit, wipe my butt, take a shower, and get changed before inviting her to my place. I am usually stressed after work and want some time to be alone and get ready. Having people be in my place is stressful to me. Also I would be doing public speaking at the event. Something I was nervous about. Since the event, She has been yelling at me because I didn't let her stay at my apartment immediately when I arrived home from work. I requested that she come later when I was ready. This meant that she had to wait for 2 hours because she gets off work before me and then add my travel time to get home.. blah blah blah. She also was angry because I didn't let her spend the night on a weeknight after having sex because it would add stress to my morning routine for work.

She has never invited me to her place. Not once.

Am I wrong for saying that she has no right to make demands about when to stay at my home? Am I wrong for telling her that I do not need to offer any explanation for what time I ask her to stop over?

After almost two years, my girlfriend and I got back together. We originally broke up because of our conflicting religions. Her being a strong a dedicated Mormon and me being a strict athiest.
We've been very excited to be back together and she fully believes we were supposed to be together and God put me in her life for a reason.
But one this she is still deeply bitter on and holds against me is that she thought I would have called her during this two years at some point.
She delt me a devastating break up for the difference in religion after I took her and her family to a baseball game and took her out on her 'dream date'. She wanted to be friends but I was so in love and hurt by her, I told her I didn't and that was where the conversation ended.
She thought within a week or two I would have called, she even hoped I'd call for almost a year.
But I didn't let go of my anger towards her until a few months before she reached out to me to get back together.
Was I supposed to have called her? Was this something I was supposed to do all this time?