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I'm not a fuck boy but I have bad luck with girls. I've been talking to this girl lately and she claimed her ex was abusive. She was with him for 4 years and we've been talking for 2 months. She told me she wanted to get away from him, yet he keeps stalking her. She got drunk a month ago and he f***** her. At that point I lost my respect for her, but it got me thinking why do I always have this issue? Girls I talk to always end back up with their exes. She claims she been trying to break away from him, but admitted she still has some feelings for him. She told me she just wants to be friends because she doesn't wanna cheat on me. She's cold af to me now and treats me like a stranger. I honestly didn't do a damn thing. If I did, I'd admit it. My last girlfriend got back with her ex too because she said she had feelings still for him. I always seem to attract broken girls with a bad history. This girl I've been talking to claimed she was raped, abused, her family hates her, suicidal, etc... I've found out she is a bad liar though and a lot of this is made up stuff she did for attention. She gets along fine with her family and she was never abused. She wants to get back with someone who abuses her and threatens to kill her as she claims. Do girls just find fuck boys attractive. I'm not necessarily a 'nice guy' because I can be an asshole, but I'm thinking maybe i'd have better luck if I changed myself lmao? Fr. It's rather annoying.

So I suspect a friend (female) of mine is interested in another (male) friend of mine. She has a a boyfriend (of 7yrs) and they live together. She was previously interested in him before she got her boyfriend and has flirted with him at parties etc over the years (but nothing serious).

Now there's been a couple of trips (cabin) with the closest friends over the last year that was planned but never happened. Previously to these two trips the girl had not been interested in joining. I asked her this time beforehand and she made all kinds of excuses and was clearly not interested. Then a day later I told her that I and the boy (she might be interested in) had talked about the sleeping arrangements and that they were decided and asked again if she wanted to join. She and him were to share a room and bed alone (this wasn't a set up). Then all of a sudden she changed her tone becoming less dismissive and using laughing emojis a lot.

She then asked if all the boys (there were 2 others) were certain to join and I said yes. I asked if she was ok with these arrangements and said "yeah sure as long as he doesn't snore (and plenty of laughing emojis joking it away)". She went from not keen to super keen. I then asked if she wanted her boyfriend to join and then she said he couldn't and said what a weird thing to ask (using laughing emojis nervously). We were supposed to be 6, and then I said that two of them were uncertain, and she asked what would happen if they didn't join. I said i dunno and asked her opinion. She then said "I can join you three (all boys) if you dont mind? *laughing emojis*.

Later this year there was another trip, and similarly she was not so keen, but I said we could just have the same sleeping arrangements as earlier and she became giddy and wanted to join even tho we would just be the four of us again. She then noted that it was NOT because of who were joining..

The trips didn't happen after all, but the question is what do you think she wants and what would've happened?