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Straight Women: If a guy you find really attractive refuses to pay for you on a date and only goes Dutch, would that change your view of him?

Say there's a guy you really find really attractive. He is neutral to you at first, but you drop a lot of really strong hints for him to get to know you better and take you out on a date. The guy is open-minded and...
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Say there's a guy you really find really attractive. He is neutral to you at first, but you drop a lot of really strong hints for him to get to know you better and take you out on a Show More
I'm a straight woman: Yes, this changes my view of him. I expect the man to pay.
I'm a straight woman: No, this changes nothing. I'm perfectly fine paying for myself on dates.
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As an American white male is it normal that I think about foreign women a lot? I’m not looking for anything sexual and I just want marriage material?

Yeah so a bunch of guys in my country have sex with girls all the time and they claim its because they aren’t worth dating. Put another way, its because they don’t see a future with them. And while I do agree with them, I...
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Because Apparently Sexism is a "Personal Problem"

Tbh this post is more just a call to all the gals here. You have and will be told again and again to be quiet about sexism! That you're actually privileged to be a woman, and that men have it so much worse. I think we...
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Is my friend crazy? Why would she tell my I would probably steal her future husband?

Basically we went to a restaurant and our waiter was very cute and my friend and I liked him. She starts saying how cute he is and I say I liked him too. She kinda turned weirdly mad. She was like, "no I liked him first"....
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My boyfriend told me next time we eat out to not order drinks or dessert as it expensive?

My boyfriend pays for every time we eat out. I’ve offered numerous times to pay when we started dating, however each time he rejected and told me he doesn’t want me to pay. He spends hundreds each month on food and...
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Am I being pathetic?

I stopped working about a month ago now due to shoulder pains and very poor mental health. I was a kitchen assistant so I was doing a lot of different things in the kitchen The pain started around Christmas but I...
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Are my been stupid?

I met this guy through a neighbor or became friends with me , first week he was so sweet kind understanding and very nice to me he got me sofa paid my son's school fees got me foodstuffs I told him everything about me I'm...
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7 Unspoken Reasons Why A Woman Rejects You

Sit tight, we’ve got some things I wanna go over, guys. A little long again, sorry! This list is not going to be the usual reasons we all think of when it comes to being rejected: she's already taken, you're not...
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Have you met this type of guy before? (quite specific behaviour case)?

I met this guy on a dating app, he is quite friendly and he invited me to go bowling and asked if i was competitive, he also mentioned that he wanted to buy me lunch/dinner. Everything here seems to be quite normal. He...
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Is he trying to take things forward or should I just keep being friends?

My guy friend and I met after a few days. He brings chocolates for me. He tells others that we both are hanging out. He finds out while talking that I’ve been in touch with his best friend. I’m not interested in his best...
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What should I do?

So, I just moved back together and moved back in with my boyfriend. We were exes for a while and have recently reconciled. So I decided to test him to see if he would build trust. AND HE FAILED. I know, some of...
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Why am I so incompetent?

I was working with intellectually disabled adults, and it was in a group home setting. I liked it at first, but im naturally shy so it's hard for me to start conversations. I did make small talk sometimes with them but it...
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Is she lying to me?

There is a girl, we've been friends for 6 years. Recently I've started to see some semi-romantic or romantic behaviour from her towards me. I wasn't sure what it is, but it seemed like she has an interest. One day a...
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Do I have a chance? Does he even like me as a person? Am I just overreading everything? Should I trust him? Any opinions?

To start, I have major trust issues due to past abuse & bullying. While trust issues aren't excuses & should be worked on, I do have them & they (currently) drastically affect me. I started my job 2 months ago & love it....
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Lack of money should be reason to cut a guy off?

So I starting dating this guy, we talked for about two weeks before I asked him out. He told me he was broke that he wouldn’t be able to pay for himself but I insisted that it was since I asked him him out. I was fine...
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A girl I like seems to avoid talking to me, what do I do?

I work with this girl and have had some positive interactions with her in the past. She has been friendly with me when we have interacted. I have never done anything that would anger her or something like that. She seemed...
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Got a position but we didn’t discuss pay… how should I ask? Will I get paid?

My first day was yesterday (i go back tmw). Its only Tuesdays and Thursdays. I know they wanted to hire me but i also told them I wanted to go to graduate school right after as well. I have not completed my...
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My new guy is sweet & loving yet he also is rude & a total a**hole at the same time?

This guy really likes me & I’m attracted to him, we’ve been hanging out. when it comes to me he gives a ton of affection, pays for everything & plans trips & events with me, wants me to be his girlfriend eventually, loves...
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What do you think of men that don't care that their girlfriend/wife, is only romantically involved with them for money?

It is different if a guy pays a hooker for sex, because he just wants to bust his nut but when it comes to romantic relationships, both the man and the woman should be romantically in love with each other. If one or both...
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