Are my been stupid?

[Anonymous]

I met this guy through a neighbor or became friends with me , first week he was so sweet kind understanding and very nice to me he got me sofa paid my son's school fees got me foodstuffs I told him everything about me I'm a widow and I got two boys , so recently he started complaining that I don't know how to manage and also I I'm extremely open with him I tell him everything he doesn't say I love you to me or even call me I call I text all by myself yesterday I told him about my husband's loan I wasn't telling him cause I wanted him to pay it I was just sharing it with him as my partner I told him I owe someone I started saying that I shouldn't make him become my enemy that all my stories are becoming too much for him so I apologized to him he said he wasn't angry later I told him about how my boss complained about my perfume smell he told me off all the money he sends I can't afford to buy perfume for myself later he told me to go to a supermarket to go buy it I got there he chose everything him self told me to get school things for my kids which I did again the bill was 110,30 he said again that all his life he has never seen anyone like me before that I spend so badly since yesterday till now no messages from him or even calls please I need all your honest advice what should I do was happening?

[JoyGirl]

He sounds nice, and he may start thinking you want to take advantage of his money, if you keep bringing up for financial problems. Try to avoid that, please, especially when you two are not together, yet.

Does he know you like him? 🤔

[JoyGirl]

Your*

[Asker]

Yes I told him bluntly that I'm so inlove with him since today he hasn't chatted me and same goes for me

[JoyGirl]

What did he say when you told him?

[Asker]

Should I chat him up I miss him so much and my chest burns so hard cause I've not heard his voice today

[Asker]

He said if I want him to give me all that love I want and stop providing for me

[Asker]

But I love him so so much its hurting me so badly I honestly love him

[JoyGirl]

He said that if you want all that love from him, he will stop providing for you? 🤔

I say no, because then you will seem desperate. We don’t want men to see us as desperate. 😁

[Asker]

Yes that if I want him always on phone with me preaching love telling me sweet word then he would stop providing for me

[JoyGirl]

Oh, then it sounds like he doesn’t like long phone conversations. If he works, and has other things to do, it is understandable.

[Asker]

I just sent messages to him but his not replying and his online

[JoyGirl]

Girlll…you just made yourself look desperate. 🤪

[Asker]

Really then I won't chat him again I just have to wait for him to chat this whole thing is just so new except for my husband haven't dated anyone else

[Iron_Man]

You have to understand in the beginning Of meeting somebody guys that are interested in you go out of their way and break there ass to try to hook you into the boat and then once you’re hooked and they got you in the boat the honeymoon phase wears off and the guys resort back to there regular old style

[EmmaMary]

Sounds like you're just being a first class Gold Digger.

[Asker]

Okay thanks but why

[EmmaMary]

How come he started paying for everything after only the first week? Either he's an extremely clever mind reader or you had given him all the sob stories.

Haven't you got a grain of moral standing in telling him to stop all this extravagant spending?

[Asker]

What do you mean by that I don't understand 🤔 explanation please

[EmmaMary]

I can see I'm just wasting my time, so just forget it. smh

[Asker]

No explanation please thats why I asked the questions cause I need honest answers

[EmmaMary]

OK then.

WHY haven't you TOLD him to STOP spending all this MONEY?

I cannot make it any clearer than that.

[Asker]

Spend all which money he bluntly told me his doing it from his haert cause he know I'm a widow and I'm new to real Estate i haven't started earning money yet so he decided to help me and my 2 kids which I understand perfectly and can't wait to start earning I had to go out there to get another job added to the real estate so I stop depending on him

[JoyGirl]

@EmmaMary You are so straightforward. Love it!
I am laughing from this…lmao 😂

[EmmaMary]

Do you ever intend repaying some of this small fortune he's spent on you?

Or will you simply move on to the next one when his money dries up?

[Asker]

You're very stupid to say that is that you can't read or pretending to be a monster don't you understand when I explained I love him and guessing his the one who doesn't love me and I'm really working hard not to depend so much on him so I got a job people like you don't deserve to be on this app cause 1 you can't save a life
2 you can't advice anyone to save a life so thanks for your time Goodnight

[EmmaMary]

Just how long have you known this poor gullible guy?

Regardless of circumstances, unlike you, I could never, ever abuse one's "friendship" like you've gone and done.

Goodnight to you.

[Asker]

You're such a dummy 🙄 I guess I came to the wrong platform to seek for advice and I never abused his friendship not for once stupid

[EmmaMary]

If that's all you have to say then please do remember that "It Takes One To Recognise One" Touché.

[EmmaMary]

Also, thank you so much for getting the rest of us moral standing women slated because of women like you.

[Asker]

How can you be so heartless you don't know me I just came here to seek for advice next thing is I'm a first class golddigger seriously someone I stated here that I love him so much but I fear he doesn't love me same way I just need advice next thing is calling me a gold digger really God

[Asker]

How can you talk to a woman like you in such ill manner I never stole from him he keeps telling me his doing all from his heart and you walk up here to call me a golddigger Jesus Christ

[EmmaMary]

Let's be completely honest here for once, you're only fearing he doesn't "love" you the same way you do, because of the "Money Pit" drying up.

[EmmaMary]

I do sincerely hope you rest and sleep easy with your conscience at night.

Wishing you very pleasant dreams.

[Asker]

What damn money seriously you think love is money stupid don't you know you can love a man who has it all and be in pains I don't love him for his money which I bluntly told him even if ever he goes broke I'm always gonna stand by him he also told me he had a girlfriend who's white that his dating 🤧 I hesitated at first and with all the explanations I decided to give it a try money isn't everything to me my dear cause I've touched it before my inlaws took my life away from me

[EmmaMary]

Good heavens... He has a girlfriend... Just what the hell are you doing trying to hold on to him?

So off you go with yet another sob story... Unbelievable! smh

Anyway, I've wasted enough time and energy here... At least I'm off to bed with an extremely clean conscience.

Goodnight and may your conscience go with you.

[Asker]

May yours go with you cause you said really hurtful words to me and I didn't deserve that

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHGirl.

[Anonymous]

It sounds like you have been using him.

[flirtatiousgirl]

I really don't understand anything