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Straight Women: If a guy you find really attractive refuses to pay for you on a date and only goes Dutch, would that change your view of him?

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Straight Women: If a guy you find really attractive refuses to pay for you on a date and only goes Dutch, would that change your view of him?
Straight Women: If a guy you find really attractive refuses to pay for you on a date and only goes Dutch, would that change your view of him?
Straight Women: If a guy you find really attractive refuses to pay for you on a date and only goes Dutch, would that change your view of him?
"A woman is not obligated to give you sex! Grow up and enter the 2020s!"
"A woman is not obligated to give you sex! Grow up and enter the 2020s!"
"Pay for my food like Im a small child, or else youre not a real man!"
"Pay for my food like I'm a small child, or else you're not a real man!"
Say there's a guy you really find really attractive. He is neutral to you at first, but you drop a lot of really strong hints for him to get to know you better and take you out on a date. The guy is open-minded and figures "sure, why not?" and agrees to go out on a date with you. However, the afternoon before the date, he texts you and tells you that he always goes Dutch, meaning he only ever pays for his meals and you'll only ever pay for yours. He will NOT be paying for anything on your date, now or ever.

DOES THIS CHANGE YOUR VIEW OF HIM; SPECIFICALLY IN A NEGATIVE WAY?

Keep in mind, this does not involve the "we'll each take turns paying" scenario, since in this case, you persuaded him to ask you out on a date, even if he is still technically The Asker. This also does not involve the "only if the man insists on paying" scenario. If you are fine with paying yourself and the man insists anyway, then you're still option B.

I'm talking about any woman who has the expectation that the man must pay for you on your date and if you're forced to spend your own money, then you will feel slighted or negative towards him, including refusing him sex down the line, or even ghosting him.

Inspired by this question here and countless other similar ones on GAG.
I'm a straight woman: Yes, this changes my view of him. I expect the man to pay.
I'm a straight woman: No, this changes nothing. I'm perfectly fine paying for myself on dates.
I'm a guy or a queer woman: Results.
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Kinda messed that half of all the women have double standards. So there ya go, men. At least 50% of women are undateable gold digging heffers, if this small GAG survey is anything to go by. Respect to all the girls who voted B, though! ✊
Straight Women: If a guy you find really attractive refuses to pay for you on a date and only goes Dutch, would that change your view of him?
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