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There's a girl I know who is very beautiful and does modeling work for magazines & online. When we were hanging out a while back she told me about how sometimes she goes on dinner dates with older men for money. I held back my opinions and decided to ask questions about it, she said it's non sexual and she meets up just for the dinner like a pretend girlfriend experience (she would use a sugar baby site & a fake name for that kind of stuff).

The logic doesn't really make any sense because I personally wouldn't spend 200 to 500 dollars just to go on a date with a very attractive woman with sex not being apart of the equation... She asked me if I'd ever date someone who does that and I didn't know how to respond because instinctually I wanted to say "no" but at the same time I'm very sexually attracted to her and didn't want to make her feel bad or ruin my chances.

Anyways this came to mind again because she recently told me about one of these dates she went on, the guy messaged her on IG saying he'd pay her $500 just to go out for dinner & drinks, she said he looked & sounded like Borat. We just kind of made fun of it while I did some shitty Borat impersonations but I felt confused about the whole situation and thought about that question she asked me a while back.

I know this sounds stupid and I probably shouldn't even care, but I kind of like her and she seems to kind of like me - so I figured I'd ask this question on here and forget about it lol

A few years ago I was in between jobs and had a lot of free time. I talked a lot to a girl on Tumblr until she decided to start working on a cam site. I followed her there, but after she left the site I stayed. I ended up meeting another girl who was working on the site to pay for college. We decided to end the sexual component quickly as it was making things awkward. A year passed and we became very close. We talked for hours almost every day on the site, in messages, and in Skype calls. She left the cam site just before graduation and I left with her. She trusted me enough to eventually give me all of her personal info. It's now been 3.5 years and we are still Skyping 2-3 time per week and talking a lot in texts. We know everything about each other. She is basically the girl of my dreams. She's more beautiful than any girl iv'e ever met, smart, funny, courageous, I can go on and on. The problem is, she has over 50 recorded sex videos online. Her name was exposed by a guy that harassed her in the past. If you search her full name, you can find everything. I know most of these videos will never disappear, and it's already been found by many of her friends, sister, and mother. I come from a very conservative family and they would never accept her past. As the years pass, more and more videos are posted. Every new video kills me a little more inside. I worry how this would impact our future. We don't live in the same country, so a real relationship will require complete investment. When i'm in doubt, we see each other in Skype and all the doubts disappear. She makes me more happy than anyone else ever has, and she understands me like nobody ever has. I'm not really thinking of ending things with her, I'm just curious what others think. Any input, experiences, or advice would be helpful. Thanks.

So my question is:
Would you date someone who previously worked on a cam site, if they were basically the girl/guy of your dreams?