First, why would I date a woman if I didn't fancy her?
Anyway, I always pay for dates. It's just seems like the gentlemanly thing to do. It's not like I was too poor to afford a meal. And I don't have issues with women, such as believing that they are all good diggers or users.
Plus, if I was the one who asked her out, I should pay.
I wouldn't insist to hard on paying if a date felt strongly about paying or going Dutch. Ain't no big thing as far as I'm concerned. My machoness wouldn't be offended.
I've actually had ladies pay the bill once we've been dating.
The person who asks the other one out is obligated to pay for the date regardless unless they announce an end to the date in which case they are only obligated to pay for the part of the date that came before the announcement as well as transportation home for their date.
At some point it would be nice if she reciprocated but it isn't necessary. Since I'm a better cook than most professional chefs, I tend to invite a girl to come to dinner. Then paying is irrelevant since I already have the food on hand.
Whether I "fancy" her or not doesn't enter into it and for that matter I wouldn't have asked her if I didn't fancy her.
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u I pay for every date, even a first date when I know that I don't want to see her again.
Men who pay on the first date do it for their ego, it has nothing to do with the woman and everything to do with the man's need to validate his "malehood".
The only time I pay for dates is when I want to treat someone, and that is never going to happen on the first date.
It's my intent to always pay. Last date I had she asked me out. I intended to pay but she snatched up the check almost as soon as it hit the table. Lol
I do think as tradition guys should pay. But I also think if he's paying she should also be somewhat pleasant. I went on a date ( notice I said "A" date lol) with a women that I guess found me too boring. She recognized every other guy that entered the restaurant. And kept excusing herself to go talk to them. She spent most the date at other tables.
Cindy - If I didn't "fancy" the woman, I wouldn't be on a date with her in the first place !! If you're asking if the date went wrong, or it turned out I misjudged the girl and didn't like what I heard, I'd still pay for the date. The other way I wouldn't pay for it all is if she did or said some things that were so offensive I had to leave. In that case, I'd have thrown half on the table. By the way, that's never happened to me.
If I ask you out, I pay. For at least the first three dates. Sometimes, she is quick to whip out her credit card, in which case I only insist once.
Has nothing to do with being the man or with gender norms. It sinply comes down to this "if I ask you out, I pay".
My rule of thumb is that the person who asked the other person on the date pays. Typically, that's the man, I expect to pay. Because I date mostly professional women with careers, and who have resources to pay their own way, it sometimes turns out 50-50. If there are future dates, we'll alternate paying.
I dont pay if she tells me she's a feminist. I say "well lets right the past injustices and you pay for my meal. There is historical precedent we have to negate" and I've had a few girls pay for me that way! 😂😂😂😂😂 what losers. Suffice to say i dont pay for those girls.
I wouldn't be on a date with her if I didn't fancy her
Whoever volunteers to pay should uphold their insistence no matter how they end up feeling about the person. Especially on a first date.
If I didn't fancy her why would I be on a date with her?
Never take a woman to anywhere fancier than Chili's or Applebee's unless you're engaged or she's your wife. With that being said, yes, I would pay regardless if I was into her out of courtesy, but I wouldn't go on a 2nd one. That's why men have to properly vet out the women that just want a free meal.
From picture: "I don't know how much I have in this debit card but let's give it a try."
Often girls offer to split it themselves, if they do, sure. Otherwise I'll play.
I will normally pay regardless unless I suspect she would like to pay or go even or she clearly stated she wanted to.
Pretty much, supposedly went on a surprise double date but I wasn't interested so thats the only one first date I never paid for
Why should I feed a stranger? For nothing in return...
Equal rights, remember? And not only when it suits you.
50/50 until, we have bedroom fun, then pays person who invited, if it is done ~50% of times, back to 50/50, if she never invites.
Men can do it all on their own or with other men, they only need bedroom fun from women.
So paying professional, if it is legal in you part of the world, is cheaper, better quality and 100% guarantee of outcome.
Women always wanted to be treated like men so it's time for girls to shine and play their part and pay for dates. It's 2021 you can't choose which benefits you want from equality
MEN always pay for dates
HOWEVER, if a woman doesn't at least offer to pay, there will be no second or third or fourth etc.. dates
She needs to show me she's not after just my money. but that she likes me for ME
If I ask somebody on a date I expect to pay for the whole thing no matter what she looks like.
I generally get paid. The more you ignore them , the madder they get. They buy me a drink and it's time to go 😁.
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