Search Results: can you find a partner when you are lost

i m a sucker for beauty and youth as most men are and i choose to date younger as my career may require more post graduate education (so settling down and children wouldn't be realisty in the next couple years and id prefer chidren with women in her 20s.) but i find older women so much more pleasant to deal with as they know how to carry themselves in a certain way and understand people. younger women i refer to are in their early to mid 20s and older would be around my age, 28 plus.

I've dated both and mostly early 20s as of recent. but they just can't make me feel the way a women around my age can. asyou get into the older market, optiions do slim in terms of well roundedness. if she's very nice she prob has kids or is divorced (baggage) if she is super hot at 33 and single, she probably has a serious personality flaw too hard to overcome for most partners or slut or golddigger is always possible. it seems the option filled younger market comes with the price of immaturity.

yes i m sorta lost. a balance would make me happy but thers always a big issue with either.

what would you suggest or advise?

I was recently diagnosed with a condition of the scalp which causes me to lose hair diffusely, my only option is to shave it bald, skinhead bald like pitbull. Now this is a huge blow to me because I'm only 19 and I've never even had a legitimate girlfriend. I have high standards I can admit but it's something I take very serious and in the end only need one. So before anyone calls someone shallow for not wanting to date someone with no hair, I just want to say I believe you have to be very attracted to your partner for it work and to keep interest. My standards are set and won't change. But from everything I've read on sites for guys like me who lost hair super young they all say attractive young women under 30 are repelled by a bald guy, they may be nice but very rarely will a girl 18-24 range or even to 30 who looks good will be attracted to a bald man. That we have to wait until mid 30's of we want a chance with any decent girls. (Please kep in mind this is all what they said, but I feel like it's kinda true too given how much hair is praised by young women) so girls does this mean I'll most likely have to wait given no hair and my standards or are these guys just some sad pity party group and can young bald guys be attractive? Give personal opinions of if you find bald guys attractive or if you could be in something serious with a bald guy.