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I was casually seeing someone for 6 months. Would hang out every other week but texted everyday. It felt like we formed a genuine friendship and He knew more about my day and life than anyone else really.

I never saw him as a future relationship tho due to our age difference. I’m 37 and he’s 23. But was enjoying the companionship and thought he was a really good guy.

Recently it seemed that maybe he didn’t view me the same as I viewed him. I would try to initiate getting together other than sex but he would kinda blow it off. So I ignored him a few days and then message him that we’re on diff pages and I’m gonna look for something else. He said “no hard feelings. I respect your decision and enjoying hanging with you. Good luck rest of the summer”.

Now I’m just feeling like this doesn’t sit right with me. 6 months of talking everyday and that’s the end? Would it be wrong to ask to meet and talk or is that too much and I need to just move on and get over it?

Likely they will be passing through in a few weeks so we can meet up then. Also they promised promised not to make it last minute and they switched the timing from further to closer last minute.. well last minute for me which is less than a two week warning.

So not only am I just getting over being sick but I was caught off guard and I’m not up to it. Literally, I don’t want to throw up on them.

They keep checking to see if I’m going to change my mind.. giving me up to the last minute which is so stressful like I wish they’d just say ok we’ll see you next time.

Anyhow, how terrible on a scale of 1-10 is it for me to not go? I already have them a heads up so it’s not out of no where but I feel bad. But also sick. Plus it’s only been 72 hours- I can still be contagious I don’t even see why they’d want to risk it 🤷🏻‍♀️

Thing is we almost met up several times but didn’t bc of miscalculation on both our parts so I feel like I’m more tipping the scale of fault now— which is not useful but hey that’s where I’m at.