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Me and he are in a serious relationship since 2 years now ( his family knows about me and my family, except my dad knows about him). He is most of the times too rude for no reason like he asks me my salary and I asked him that if he loves me then why does he see me so low? he finally confessed to me that He has trust issues and is unable to still open up because he said - " I am scared, I am unable to express because of my ex "

I have trust issues too because he follows random girls on insta and cuts my calls abruptly as he has two jobs. He explained me that he also cuts his mom's calls as he has two jobs and that I shouldn't feel bad.

When he said me that he would have slapped me if he was there in person because someone from a fake account texted a girl he followed on instagram ( he just follows one girl on instagram) - " he is cheating on you ", it got me on my nerves ( I felt too bad thinking he is sounding like he would abuse me). I couldn't sleep all night after that conversation over call.

I have finally expressed to him that I was emotionally abused by dad since childhood like him tont, belittling me, sometimes physically abuse like slapping ( my bro protects me and mom) and I don't know what it is like to have a family and a dad because dad always went out with friends and no time at all for kids. This was the only thing I hid from him since 2 years and I was like now he knows everything about me and I'm not hiding anything. That's how I started to earn on my own. He said me he'd protect me ( he started behaving like Mr prince charming suddenly) etc but I was like not needed, my bro takes care of me and mom.

This is our anniversary weekend. The night we are actually celebrating is tomorrow. So technically we don’t have any specific plans tonight. However, this morning, we were discussing what to do after work. To be fair, I did dress up and put on make up thinking we would be going somewhere.

One of his buddy is in town for the weekend. Since we were celebrating our anniversary tomorrow, his friend said maybe to hangout on Friday. He heard nothing from his friend for days so no confirmation. Then in the late after today, his friend confirmed he can hang out tonight.

While I asked him if he thought of what we’re doing after work…he then told me he’s going out with his buddy. However, he said he was pretty annoyed at his friend for being last minute. It gave me no chance to plan something with my own friends. If it bothers me, he said he can just do something with me tonight. He feels bad for leaving me at home with nothing to do last minute. Also, none of my friends are available. At the same time, his friends are always busy so they barely meet up. This one particular friend actually moved to a different state so they barely see. I would feel bad for not letting him go.

Also, my boyfriend and I are currently going through a rough patch. Last month, his actions and words disappointed me (not cheating) a whole lot and made heart sank. Right now, he’s trying to fix things and making things up.

Should I let him go?