I found out that my boyfriend cheated with a pregnant woman and I cannot seem to look past that?

[Anonymous]

From the beginning of our date, he told me that he cheated in his past relationship. I chose to still continue with him considering it happened before he/I started. However lately two things changed my view:
1. He is still in contact with that person that he cheated with;
2. From the limited conversation that I've seen, he cheated with her while she was pregnant and throughout the pregnancy. He said it was pure emotional and kisses/touches were involved.

I found the facts to be very disturbing and I am thinking to end it once and for all.
I do enjoy a lot his company but I am not sure I can ever look past that.

Do you have some advices to share?

[wankiam]

this is where you have to do some serious soul searching... if you know you can never get past this then as much as you love the guy, the relationship is doomed and you need to do yourself a favour and end it now. if you want to stay together he needs to show you can trust him but at the same time you will need to not accuse him of stuff everytime he is late home or picks up his phone etc... it ain't going to be easy

[WhiplashMonkey]

1. Once a cheater always a cheater. You shouldn’t of trusted him in the first place.


2. If he cheated, he doesn’t love you. Don’t make the mistake of sticking around. It will suck more.


3. Leaving truly is the right choice. I’m sorry this happened to you. I hope you’ll be okay

[Hangry06]

Your mistake for believing he would never cheat
Maybe he has a pregnant women fetish

[EmmaMary]

Just five very simple words... Dump him and move on.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHGirl.

[LoneWolf21]

There is nothing wrong with you deciding that his cheating in a past relationship is a deal breaker. Honestly, it's a very safe and smart decision. There is a reason the saying, "once a cheater, always a cheater" is so often quoted.

[Leonharted]

If you are unable to move past something that he has done, then continuing the relationship is a waste of both your time and his.

[ChrisMaster69]

That is not the type of person to enter a relationship with.

drop kick him.

[SiberFox]

No advice, but I agree that this is very disturbing and grounds for rejection.

[Wise4myage]

Makes sense to me, and why stay with a cheater in the first place?

[Anonymous]

Once a cheater.
Always a cheater.
Have fun!