Is my boyfriend cheating on me?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend cheated on me in the summer (we've been together for a year), but I decided to forgive him because he told me himself and said it wouldn't happen again. But I don't believe him. How do I know if it's just my imagination or not. I keep thinking he would cheat on me again.

[Aerissa_Jade]

The problem with cheating is its damn near impossible to get that trust back.

The thing I hated the most is when he'd say to me, if you love me you have to trust me... yeah nope!

You'd be better off to move on, trust cannot be given it has to be earned and it doesn't sound like he has done anything to earn it back.

[Asker]

he had tried before, but now it was as if he had forgotten that it had happened

[Aerissa_Jade]

He probably thought he earned it back, can never earned it back or just gave up caring.

[Asker]

Yeah true

[melanieeeB]

Once a cheater always a cheater is the norm
But don't accuse someone just like that but also at the same time, don't let yourself be called crazy cause a gut feeling is the truth mostly

Ask him and then decide if you're able to trust him and move on and let it be or break up.

[OlderAndWiser]

He's cheated on you once and you no longer trust him. (Understandable.) Why are you still with him?

[spartan55]

Then why are you with him? Duh break up if you don't trust him

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

It's not even if he's cheating again or not. It's that the trust is gone. No relationship can survive if there's no trust... Do you really want to stay with someone you feel you can't trust anymore?

[SnakeBoop]

meh, to me you're a fucking idiot to even stay after the first time he cheated.
Better question, is now he knows he can do it and apologise and you stay, why WOULDN'T he do it again?
Why would you stay with someone you don't believe?

[Asker]

I wanted to see what would happen. I saw his message on Instagram once and I was the only girl he had written to. but now we talked on the phone and the message kept coming and he answered and answered

[Anonymous]

So I am going to be a complete an utter bitch right now he cheated on you and your stupid ass took him back and now you are questioning if he is cheating again well girl you deserve it if he is your stupid desperate ass shouldn’t have taken him back after he cheated on you the first time your own fault

[Flower7]

It’s time to end that relationship. Whether he cheats again or not is irrelevant at this point. The trust has been broken and that takes the fun out of the relationship and leaves it full of doubts instead.

[LinkxPeach]

Your two as one person’s guts is telling you he is. Since you two are one person as a couple. But, since he said, “he would never do it again”. He must had kept his word. If not, tell him to tell the truth as a man since he’s your boyfriend.

[DaviRon]

Why do think he is cheating? I believe in the saying " once an asshole, always an asshole". May not be always right

[Asker]

I think so because he behaves more nourishing sometimes and sometimes very sweet. when we talked on the phone, the messages kept coming and he kept answering and not paying attention to me

[the_man57]

I don't know bc you gave literally zero details about the current situation. in my opinion, cheaters aren't worth it and I wouldn't forgive them

[Wise4myage]

Google the signs of a cheater and see if anything applies. Or, just dump him and move on.

[Yourfriend2021]

There's a saying "Once a cheater, always a cheater"

[Sketti2021]

Most of the time once a cheater always a cheater

[Asker]

his ex-girlfriend had cheated on him, so I don't think he'll do it to me but..

[Sketti2021]

He did already

[Asker]

Yeah, exactly

[Anonymous]

Why did he cheat the first time?

[Asker]

I never understood. he said he was drunk and they talked about very deep topics and started kissing. but he stopped because he knew it was wrong. that's what he told me

[Opinion Owner]

Well that sounds like he just can't handle his liquor

[Asker]

he had been drunk before but it had never happened…

[whosnumber1]

dump him. move on.