Is my boyfriend cheating on me? Or secretly want other girls?

[Anonymous]

First of all, I just wanted to tell you guys that I still have trust issues from my previous relationship
My ex boyfriend cheated on me so now I can't fully trust ANY guy
Me and my current boyfriend been together for almost 1.5 years
I do trust him in a way but not 100%
Although he has never cheated on me
He's a really attractive and fit guy
He's kind of like a fitness model on instagram
He has many followers on instagram and facebook
There are some girls that comment stuff on his instagram saying "youre so hot" , "wow gorgeous" , etc etc
He just likes their comments and doesn't reply
We do take pictures together and he does put our pictures on his facebook and instagram
So anyway, few days ago, I kept nagging him how he wants other girls and he's not happy with me and all that stuff
He got really annoyed and saying "If i wasn't happy with you, i wouldn't be with you"
Everyday/night he calls me and he ask how I am, what I am upto, what he's upto, etc
And last night, we were on the phone and he was playing his game
And then he said "Im gonna tag u on something"
Then I checked my facebook, and he uploaded a video of him playing his game and then he posted it on his facebook and his caption on it was:
"My girlfriend thinks im chatting to other girls.. but this is what Im actually doing.. lol" and then tagged me.
All his facebook friends can see the post
Would he do this if he was cheating on me?
Would a guy act differently if he was cheating on his partner and/or want other girls?

Yea seems like he's cheating/want other girls

No it doesn't seem like he's cheating/want other girls

[samhradh_leannan]

I'm not seeing any evidence that he is cheating or wants to be with other girls. But that tagging thing was a really inconsiderate move, in my opinion. I'm sure he was trying to be funny and make a point, but ultimately all he did was he mock your feelings and air them publicly on social media. I think that was a really disrespectful thing to do. I don't think he has given you any reason to mistrust him, that I can see, though. Especially if he is open about his relationship with you on social media, tags you in photos, etc. I think you're just feeling insecure.

[Turtleluv]

Uh I think I would be embarrassed about the fact he unloaded your drama for the world and you're so insecure you can't just enjoy the relationship.

But nope you're still asking the question he's tired of you nagging him about, "Is he cheating on me?" We don't know because we don't know him. However, if I were him I would cheat because he's already being accused and in trouble for it.

[Asker]

You would cheat? Lmao you're messed up

[Turtleluv]

I'm messed up and yet I'm not the one on the internet asking a bunch of strangers about the faithfullness of my significant other.

[Asker]

I've seen heaps of post similar to this.. so stfu mate.
you're fuckin messed up coz youd rather cheat instead of just leaving that person.

[Turtleluv]

What do other posts have to do with your question?
I'm answering your question, stop deflecting.

Then why don't you leave him, you clearly don't trust him? If he's innocent you accuse him everyday. If he's guilty you already accuse him and are still with him so it's a win win for him. Sounds like you're the one that needs to STFU.

[Wonderer89]

He’s totally cheating, everything points to it. How can you be so oblivious to what’s right in front of you? 🙄

[Asker]

So you think he is? 😔😔

[Wonderer89]

I predict you’ll be single in the very near future

[Greenbeen3]

Hahaha what?

[Supertst]

😂haha

[Asker]

Why would u say ill be single?

[Wonderer89]

Because of your crazy insecurities, baseless accusations and lack of respect and faith in your boyfriend 🤷🏻‍♀️ Just a guess

[Asker]

Why do u think he's not cheating on me? Im not being insecure. Its just his actions

[Wonderer89]

Where is his ACTIONS does it show he’s cheating on you?

[Asker]

Why would he upload that video though on his fb and put that caption?

[Wonderer89]

Because he’s sick of your insecurity and being blamed for other guys actions

[Asker]

If he's so fuckin sick of it then why wouldn't he leave me? He can go and find other girls. he's capable

[Wonderer89]

Like I said, you’ll be single in the near future 👍🏻

[Asker]

Lmao dont think so mate.

[Asker]

I would be single by now. I've been like this from last year and he's still with me. Lmao peace out nigga

[Wonderer89]

Lmao I’m not the one whining on a website that my great boyfriend that I treat like crap is getting sick of my shit mate.
He’s posting your ridiculousness publically for all to see. He’s getting to the end and so many people who are attracted to him and care for him are going to say the exact same things everyone here has said to you.
Insecure girls who take out other men’s mistakes on their partners don’t keep decent guys for long.

And based on your massive change of attitude and attempt and throwing bitchiness my way you know that. So either you’re looking for people to tell you you’re such a good girl and obviously he loves you sooooo much 😍 and you don’t have a problem with him or your waking up to the fact no one wants a girl who behaves like you and your time with him is limited unless you shape up

[Turtleluv]

Wonderer89 MHA

Hahaha

[anonym1111]

Oh my god are you serious? He offers you everything, asks you about your day, cares about you, and from what it looks like he is all about you. And you STILL manage to think that he's cheating? I mean there's no hint pointing at him cheating, it's actually the opposite! So keep him and don't be jealous by a little comment from fangirls, if you want to be with an Instagram model, you gotta stop being jealous from other girls that has no meaning in his life whatsoever.

[rockrewls]

Either you stop being distrusting and saying things like you do, or I promise he will leave you, when you love you always put your heart on the line and sometimes it gets hurt. but you are pushing him away STOP!!!
It is especially hard when the person you're with is genetically blessed and puts themselves out there.

[Asker]

Why do u think he's not cheating tho?

[rockrewls]

He open with you, so I have my doubts, but one can be certain, he pays attention to you and love on you those are good signs.

[Asker]

So its bad that he's open with me?

[rockrewls]

No its a good thing that he's open with you, it shows he's likely not hiding anything.

[DualityGreen]

He said that if he wasn't happy with you, he wouldn't be with you. That is definitely true if he is as fit as you described. Either get over your insecurities or he will dump you.

[grinwoody]

Sounds like your insecure. I would drop it unless you were sure. Work harder on keeping him if your worried. Bjs, sex, anal etc.

[mikeymike__]

Keep your eyes open on the IG (he probably just likes the attention from it). But I doubt he's cheating.

[1truekhaleesi]

You have a good relationship and I guarantee your insecurities are going to ruin it. I hope you at least look forward to your fast approaching single life.

[Asker]

Why do u think he's not cheating tho?

[1truekhaleesi]

Because there’s no signs of him cheating. He is just sick of your drama and insecurities. You trust him in a way? Stop lying to yourself. You trust him or you dont. Pick one.

[Anonymous]

You’re just paranoid, which will get him tired of you and leave you have these constant thoughts.