A man that gives you money does not always give you practical support or emotional benefits and a man that gives you emotional benefits does not always give you money because he might be poor. We live in a world where there is distance between what we want and what we have because the world is built around physical laws and those laws are built by people other than ourselves. If you feel you need support when he is not home, try bonding with other mothers or best friends. Or see if you can find a grandparent or jobless cousin that is willing to live with you when you are at your most tired. My uncle had a poor sister who lived on a farm and he said he wanted to help her out by hiring her to be his personal support worker when he retired from his job and needed help around the home.
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you are being extremely unreasonable. you're not working. he has to work 2 jobs to keep you two comfortable. and then when the baby comes? you'll be seriously scraping by. and here you are, thinking of cheating on him when he's trying to make money so you two can eat and keep a roof over your head? wtf? selfish much? count your blessings. it must be nice to be with someone, live with someone, have him provide for you, as you're pregnant. most don't get that luxury. god get a hobby or something.
good luck being a single mom. you sound absolutely psycho.
I think you need to grow up because I don’t think you realize how expensive your lives are about to become.
Given he wants you to not work so you can be ready to be a stay at home mom, that means he as a man needs to do whatever he needs to do to have enough money to provide for himself, you AND the baby. Kids are NOT cheap.
The man is busting his ass so you can relax and focus on the baby. That’s love. On the other hand, he could do what many men do, and run away and leave you alone.
Grow up
You can get a job or work from home. You think your bills are going to pay themselves? That guy is working himself to death to support you and you want to go and screw other guys? Do you honestly think another guy is going to support a pregnant slut?
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Yeah sounds like he's just taking good care of you while you are pregnant. Pregnancy can feel lonely sometimes but definitely don't cheat or take it out on him
He loves you. He loves you so much that he works 2 jobs so you don't have to be uncomfortable during pregnancy. Therefore he also loves the baby because the baby can be taken care of by your body without any extra pressure.
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