Why would Hayden Panettiere date an abuser when she had better options?

[jennifer_bloom]

I am sorry, I always spell her name wrong so I did not even try to spell her complete name today.

I believe she chose a man who wounded her physically because she was wounded emotionally from her abusive mother and caregivers.

But God told me in a dream that when you are close to God, you will loathe abusers, even if you are extremely wounded or broken from the onslaught of abuse you had to go through.

God told me I need to get close to God so that I would feel repelled and repulsed by bad men who pretend to be holy religious men in public.

I had more dreams than I can count or remember by God telling me there are dangerous and evil men at church who pretend to be righteous in public. This might also apply to evil men who pretend to be God fearing Jews etc..

But God told me in dreams that my Jewish boyfriend is safe and gentle.

[Lesbologist]

Why would a woman date an abuser when she has better options? Probably because a real stand up chick doesn't want some pussy around that will let her do whatever she wants without some judgements and roadblocks. I mean seriously, a woman that doesn't want structure of some type isn't even going to seek out a relationship unless it's just to use a guy for something... money... attention... to murder her husband... yatta yatta.

With all of that said... if she wants more, than just being told she's the best and the guy jerks off to her when she sleeps with other men, what kind of man would she choose? He doesn't neccesarily need to be abusive, but if she deserves it... What kind of man would slap her for it, and what kind of man would probably turn her off?