Ever dated someone with commitment issues?

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Chazmatazz269 · Accepted Answer

No, because it’s actually super rare. The vast majority of people who talk about “fear of commitment” are just making excuses because they don’t want to address the likelihood that they just aren’t a suitable mate. He or she is “just not that into you”. Get over yourself.
An actual fear of commitment would be debilitating. You couldn’t hold a job. A job is a commitment. You couldn’t have a home. Paying for and maintaining a home requires commitment. You couldn’t have any debts or recurring bills, like utilities, at all. Those all require commitment. People with such a debilitating mental illness would almost certainly need to be committed to a mental institution. They’re not f*cking dating.

AviatorTom · Accepted Answer

Yes,. After my divorce, I met a very nice woman online. We had several very good dates, including being intimate with each other several times. Then, she told me that she really wasn't ready for a man in her life, which surprised me, and we broke up.

At the time, I was devastated. But, in the long run, this was really good, because it allowed me to meet my current wife about a year later.

DishLady · Accepted Answer

Yup. His commitment issue was his mom. She controlled everything in his life including who and when he married. He did everything he could to put off marriage till we met. We were together for two years and then his mom stepped in and paired him with a much younger version of me claiming the girl could make babies (whereas I had my little family already, which she didn’t like). So he married the girl… she was barren bc of an STD. They split and he was never able to show his face anywhere again so he moved to another country.

I never said a cross word about him. There was no need. I just let God vindicate me. And He did.

Smileygirl2000 · Accepted Answer

Yes , they had past baggage which I ended up finding out about two months into dating them. I got the heck out of there. Don't look back

Kassandra1994 · Answer

Yes unfornatetly everything was about his mommy. He would not consider making basic choices for himself like buying furniture for his apartment for example he has to called his mommy for approval. I is peaceful to stay single I'll tell you that much!

molonski2 · Answer

Been a consistent comment about me , pretty much thought-out my life , but I don't think it's true , I'm just very cautious not to jump in 100 % .

ProbablyClueless · Answer

I have, unfortunately. It's really difficult. I don't know how so many people find themselves in the position of dating people with commitment issues.

LiamJHayden · Answer

I am the one with the commitment issues. I will date long term, but under current laws I will not marry or live together. Worked on too many divorce cases and seen too many guys TRO from their own houses to risk either.

MissSunshine2 · Answer

Probably. That or they just weren't that into me.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Yes, too many times. Men are flaky at best.

browsingthroughthe · Answer

Thankfully I haven't, I hope I never have such poor luck. Or poor judgement.

samael_kmarty · Answer

Yes I have and it's not good. We got close, she never said I love you also no sex or something like that cause I think saying to words before is something much more important then doing it.

RingOfFire · Answer

I used to have commitment issues, but now I have trouble committing to that kind of behavior.

Pterodon · Answer

No such thing. When Mr or Miss Right comes along all those issues disappear

RepleteAura · Answer

Sucks to date someone who doesn't want you but wants your body 😐

Anonymous · Answer

No, but I did date someone who had trouble keeping both sets of her lips closed and being faithful.

iCandice · Answer

Yes unfortunately they think they wanna relationship but then when they get in one not so much.

queenofcardio · Answer

I don't think so.

sage2021 · Answer

He had a bad case of commitment phobia! 🙄

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

Yea, once I see it they're canned

Sickworld · Answer

Men love sick people

Anonymous · Answer

No but everyone who’s dated me can say yes

Annie12509 · Answer

Nope luckily

Wendy199 · Answer

Yes it’s right of passage in dating.

Chayce · Answer

I was them

Anonymous · Answer

Unfortunately

jahaims · Answer

No, I'm not a fool

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