Has anyone ever dated an avoidant attatched person before, how did it go?

[Anonymous]

[HollyK21]

Once when I was in my early 20s and I’d never do that again. Avoidant attachment is basically being emotionally unavailable, and while it may seem like they could be interested, they never give you their full investment and that’s just such a waste of time. With people like that, the last thing that need is a romantic relationship. Instead they should unpack whatever baggage causes them to be avoidant and heal it so that they can be a good partner to someone one day.

[Anonymous]

No, but I believe I have a personality it could work with.

[Asker]

Whats your personality?

[Opinion Owner]

Apparently, I'm very resilient.

[Asker]

Thats cool
So you dont think an avoidant attatched person a turn off?

[Opinion Owner]

Personally, no.

[Asker]

Dang man I wish I knew you in real life lol

[Asker]

Dang thats a no 😂😂 all good

[Opinion Owner]

I use the in browser version of this site, so I dont get notifications.

[Opinion Owner]

You would think it would be statistically impossible to know someone on here, but I'm fairly confident I accidentally found someone.

[Asker]

What do you mean? Me or someone else lol

[Opinion Owner]

Unfortunately, probably someone else. She is in my age range.

[Asker]

Ah okay my bad. You're so kind and calm lucky lady

[msc545]

I have done that just once, and it never ever goes well.

[ᴍᴀʀʀɪᴇᴅɪsʟᴀᴍɪᴡᴏʀsʜɪᴘ]

Of course, everyone has something different.

[jahaims]

It doesn't work