Does my boyfriend love me?

[Anonymous]

Hey girlies, I need advice I have a boyfriend of 2 months

I might be overthinking but I feel like he is changing before we got together he was literally obsessed with me that he would get mad if I don't text him back every second when I tell him that I'm busy he would say 'you can never be busy for someone you love' he never made excuse he would always text me back immediately

Then we got into relationship he was like that untill he started this job which takes all his time I understand that he doesn't have time but he doesn't text me like he used to

I know he loves me and still care for me and we are so inlove when we are together but he stopped texting me good mornings and might go a day without talking to Me if I don't call or text him

But again I know he is busy with work he sometimes ft me while at work just to see me

But still a text a day would mean a lot to me so what do y'all think?

[MikeTheBartender]

I dated a girl many years ago, and I will never forget what she said, did you take a piss or a dump today? Because that's the time it takes to send a text. It's not to say he doesn't love you, but it's just a damn text message the fact that he has not texted you back I don't know, it's definitely something to watch his other behavior. That being said, what is the rest of his behavior like, is he making future plans with you? When you hang out with him is his phone face up or face down? What's his social media behavior like? I wouldn't be heartbroken yet, but I would keep your eyes open

[OlderAndWiser]

Did you post another question that says that he is depressed and has ghosted you?

[Sushi2405]

You know what the best solution to this is... to talk things out. I know it might be a tough thing to do but trust me it is the best thing and nothing can take it's place. Just talk to him about it politely. Don't let it turn into a fight just try to run a normal conversation. If he cosiders your feelings and your doubts then it's a gkod thing otherwise you know what's best for you.

[leftovercream_]

Girl I can totally understand life after work. It’s so exhausting and you barely have time for anything. Why don’t you start texting him good morning and little texts when you know he has a break? It will definitely make him feel better that you’re thinking about him and he will also start texting you. It’s the beginning of your relationship, show as much love as you can.🫶🏻

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the dance of modern love, moving from lovebombing to the rhythm of real life! It sounds like your beau was initially in the honeymoon phase, where everything is exciting and he wanted to be your number one fan, reacting to every move you make. Now, reality is setting in with his new job, and it's like he's started a new song, one with a slower beat. It's not unusual for communication patterns to change as relationships grow and life gets busier.

However, feeling connected is key, and it's totally understandable that you yearn for those "good morning" texts and daily check-ins. Love is not just about feeling it when you're together but also about finding ways to bridge the distance when life pulls you apart. My advice? Talk to him. Share how much those little messages mean to you. It's not about keeping score but about sharing love in ways that speak to you. Remember, communication is the bridge between confusion and clarity. Keep dancing together, but maybe it's time to switch up the steps. 😉

[Nikki1989]

More texting fails. Try some real communication.

[meepmeeperton]

He definitely found a work wife. He greets her by hugging her and picking her up. And she compared her hands to his and said “omg your hands are soooo big they make mine look tiny!”

[Alex-Snow]

I think a text or a quick call each day is appropriate. Are you sexually involved with him yet?

[Asker]

Not yet

[Alex-Snow]

Well hang in there and I hope it works out with the two of u. I'm 19 and if u ever want a honest opinion message me if u have a? or want to chat about it.

[RossyBoi]

Sounds like he's got bored of you so you should dump him.

[DishLady]

Sounds like he’s just busy.

[RedInnocent69]

He probably loves what you do to him…