12.8K opinions shared on Other topic. "He who is without sin, cast the first stone," Jesus says in the bible. And of course who is perfect? I have been where you are, a cheating cheetah More so, who had a big fling for more than a year with a Coptic Christan from Egypt for a whole year, unbeknown to my husband out in Egypt until One day I had furiously spelled out" "I am fricking another man and we are in love!" I couldn't believe I had said it, however, what is done is done, as they say...
However, the affair had continued, and each and every time he forgave me, Loving Me unconditionally. But Not every man is like this, and even with my husband Now, he still throws it up in my face, calls me "No wife," and even tells me a lot lately how much he hates me. Typical man. Of course, who can blame him?
Another well known phrase I am sure you have heard too: Let sleeping dogs lie. If nothing has been brought up by Now, which you are lucky the One you played tootsies with: 'Aren't even that great of friends,' didn't just go and spill out his lungs to him out of spite, or even because he had wanted this One nite stand to Continue. And with this, count your lucky stars that it didn't go any further or cause a situation like: Between a rock and a hard place.
There's no need to bring up old skeletons, don't unlock any doors that need Not be unlocked, for if you would decide to let your 'Guilt' get the best of you, you may as well start giving yourself your own walking papers, closing the door of tomorrow behind you.
The bottom line is, he May not forgive you, and on top of That, he may even go to the source that started his stuff with you. You would be playing with fire, too close for comfort...
Move on from it, sweetie. Eventually, like many bad memories, they fade with time, with age... Just learn by your mistakes and let it be a lesson of one heck of A------Close call.
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Ahh you are not a piece of shit because the bible redeems you and your actions. I have the utmost respect for you.
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The heck? I'm Christian and I'm telling you right now that God isn't pleased with your silly comment. Don't twist up the scriptures just to justify sin. I hate when people do that.
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@Realfire22, Read THIS in the bible and do your homework.. Not silly and God will get you You on Judgement day...
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+1 y"I accidently cheated on my boyfriend with his friend."
... did you trip and land on his dick? Did you develop a rare eye disease that made you believe that you were screwing your boyfriend instead of his friend? No? Then it wasn't an accident. My God, if you're going to cheat at least be woman enough to own up to it.
" I haven't told my boyfriend yet because I don't want to ruin our 2 year relationship."
You ruined the relationship the minute you decided to hop on another guy's dick, so you might as well just fess up at this point. He'll find out eventually, especially if his "friend" secretly hates him. One day the two of them will get into and argument and what do you think will be the FIRST thing to slip out of him mouth? So yeah, if you want any chance of salvaging your relationship, it's better that it comes from you. Because if he ever hears this from anyone else, it's over.
" I know I shouldn't feel bad because his friend came onto me and they aren't even that great of friends."
YES YOU ABSOLUTELY SHOULD FEEL BAD. In fact, you should feel like a piece of shit. It doesn't matter who came onto who, the point is that you guys were together for TWO YEARS and you cheated on him. Two fucking years of your boyfriends life have been wasted with a girl who apparently thinks that fucking other guys is okay, as long as she isn't the one who initiates things. Wtf, how old are you? Twelve? The whole "he started it" argument stopped working years ago honey. Unless his friend raped you, you are 100% wrong and should feel disgusted with yourself.90 Reply
+1 y"at first I thought he was just playing around but we ended up having sex"
yeah like little kids playing with each other will end up having sex. God, that image is horrifying.
"I haven't told my boyfriend yet because I don't want to ruin our 2 year relationship and It's already been 2 months this happened and he has no idea"
you kind of ruined the relationship the moment his penis entered you. And I'm so surprised he hasn't found this out.
"I feel kind of bad though. I know I shouldn't feel bad because his friend came onto me and they aren't even that great of friends. I think they secretly hate each other."
oh yeah, you feel "kin of bad." You're such a great girlfriend. Even if he came onto you, YOU had the decision to turn him down/reject him, which you DID NOT do. So just because they're not great friends, justifies that you get the right to cheat on your boyfriend. If you think they hate each other, you made the situation worse by doing the deed!
"Should I feel guilty? It's been so long so there's no point in telling my bf right?"
Ah, I see. So this justifies why you feel "kind of bad" huh?
"I can see a real future with my bf so I don't think I should tell him about accidently cheating on him."
There's no more future, Honey.
"He seems to really love me and I don't want to hurt his feelings."
You will hurt his feelings30 Reply
+1 ysorry but that's actually not an accident. like at all. did his dick just accidentally fall into you, and so you both just kinda accidently had sex? no. i don't mean to be rude but... honestly. i think any good relationship requires - not 'could be good with or without' but REQUIRES - honesty and trust from both people. so you need to tell him no matter what, because it's selfish of you to keep something like that from him. if he forgives you, THEN you know you two have a 'real future' together. but as of now, since you've (non-accidentally) cheated on him and not told him, it's not a very good relationship. also, you don't get to be all "i don't have to feel bad because his friend came onto me, lol". if it was consensual (ie, you gave him the go ahead and it wasn't actually rape or something), then you're both to blame.
please tell your boyfriend and please stop acting like a victim, or at least like someone who's done nothing wrong.80 Reply
+1 yWell, we are here to judge.. The site itself asks, "What's Your Opinion?" So you can't accidentally cheat on someone. I think you should tell him. I mean you'd be a bitch to not tell him. Thats like saying I accidentally sucked his dick. I accidentally let him put his penis in my vagina. https://www.reactiongifs.com/r/I8t5Gra.gif
smh.152 Reply
Asker+1 yActually a whore is a prostitute who has sex with guys for money.
2.5K opinions shared on Other topic. The guy flirted and came onto you. People do that. People that love someone else do not let them and certainly do not fuck them. He invited action and you accepted. That is NOT and accident. The word "accident" does not belong in this issue at all. Toss that word out. You chose to have sex with his "friend",
You say that you do not want to ruin your 2 year relationship. If that were true, you would not have had sex with this guy, so forget telling us that story.
" I feel kind of bad though." Just "kind of"? You don't have much of a conscience, and don't care much for your "boyfriend".
" I know I shouldn't feel bad because his friend came onto me " YOU responded. YOU agreed to do the deed. And the guy was not jacking off, YOU were having consensual sex with him. If you don't feel bad, then you don't care for your boyfriend and don't feel any obligation to do the right things.
"Should I feel guilty?" You asked that. It requires a judgment. But then when people answer, you say "If you're just going to judge me don't bother answering"
All the scorching remarks have it pretty good. You didn't listen to them so I shall not repeat the obvious conclusion about your character. If you want answers, listen to them. If you don't want answers, then don't ask!514 Reply- +1 y
And this I believe is the most helpful response.. couldn't not have stated that any clearer
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Perfectly written...
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Isn't it normal though? I mean after performances at my dance class/club, basically lots of girls (about 9 at a time) will pose round me in suggestive poses. Much more slutty than with their boyfriend, or respective deeper male friends who they hang out with alone or text more often than me.
Yet I get slutty behavior from them from not being respectful, but simply touchy feeley and posting pics (which they then like by virtue of clicking it) on fb with "likedaboss" hashtags!
Check out my question and see for urself, I'm pretty sure women respond like that
663 opinions shared on Other topic. 2months ago? Then you rationalize it with "they aren't even that great friends", so yeah he came on to you but you could have easily said something, like oh I don't know no, stop and don't ! Feel guilty? Fuck yeah you should tell him like freaking 2months ago. There's a point in telling him because you are lying to him and to yourself, disrespected him because you can't be honest with him from the start and have let time drag on. Who's to say the friend hasn't been running his mouth about what he's done making your bf look like damn fool without knowing what's actually going on. Just tell him and come clean, but I seriously hope he dumps you're lying and disrespectful self..
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Asker+1 yHow would my bf look like a damn fool if he doesn't even know about it?
Asker+1 yYeah but even if he did, my boyfriend doesn't know so how would that make him look like a fool? He doesn't know anything.
Asker+1 yYeah but nobody is going to think of him as a fool at least not right now right?
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Re-Read @MissMarvelous's comment on how your guy will find out!
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Are you shitting me? That's the WORST way to be disrespected! By him doing nothing at all other than being associated with you in the false relationship. There's a thing called social acceptance and being respected socially, right now by you cheating on him WITH his so-called friend you basically and literally SHITTED on him and his social respect, and it's guy thing as well I'm sure his boys are gonna make fun of him for a while but then stop because it is fucked up! This whole thing is fucked up starting from you getting fucked! Imma stop now, you are not just getting it. You can reply back but I won't care. I only care that your bf DOES find out and kicks you ass to the curb, quick like.
Asker+1 yHis boys are going to make fun of him? For what? Why would they make fun of him?
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It make him look stupid because everybody knows what his girlfriend is doing but him! Especially because if you've been dating for two years I bet he brags about you all the ti. e and everybody finds that so ironic that you're "such a good gir, friend" when in all honestly you disrespected him and don't have enough balls to tell the truth
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you really are dumb and disrespectful. Your boyfriend's a fool now because he's walking around loving someone like you when you cheated on him.
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+1 yI'm glad you can admit you made a mistake. That's some... Also, maybe don't refer to it as "accidentally cheating." If it's cheating, it's never by accident. Did you choose to have sex with this guy? Then it was on purpose.
Look, the sex drive is perhaps our most powerful instinct. Sometimes we give into to it. I understand and I don't judge you for that. (Not too harshly, anyway.) But every day that goes by that you don't tell your boyfriend is an insult to him. If you have any respect for him at all, you have to tell him.
If he dumps you, it'll be because you made a HUGE mistake and maybe you'll be able to learn from that. And if he stays with you, then you know you guys have something special, that maybe you two can actually work out long term. Because you can get through just about anything, if you can get through this.
If he's a good guy, he deserves to know. Don't toy with him and treat him like he's nothing, because I am confidant you don't think of him like he's nothing. You love him, right? Then fucking prove it! Don't be selfish. He deserves to know. Building a life with someone is a choice. He deserves to know what he's choosing. And if he doesn't know, can he ever really choose it at all?20 Reply
+1 yYes, you should feel guilty for not being able to control
your hormones but your young i think you really need wait to
your old enough to have a relationship least do that but this
is common enough say your not mature enough to be around
guys maybe for friends but that's about all no such thing as
accidentally cheating you were horny so things went wrong
you had sex with the guy I'm sure this will follow you as long
you continue to walk the same path in life it will go with you
into your adult life and into college life well the only thing I
can say is apologize to your boyfriend/ his friend or leave
them both alone and move on with life make new friends83 Reply- +1 y
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@epiman94- I like to give positive feedback to questions as
best as I can thank you for being nice to me too :)))
+1 yThis is bad. Sorry for the bluntness, but you practically blew it. You have two options.
1. You don't tell him and continue your relationship, but he will find out from his friend (guys talk.. especially 17 y/o) and it'll be over do good.
2. You do tell him, and he'll be extremely pissed, but based on your relationship it could maybe work out.(Good chance it won't, but it could) Let him know that either he forgives you or not you understand him... and REALLY see his point of view. Either way, he will be hurt.
You didn't sleep with a random guy, or your best friend, but his FRENEMY. They're kinda rivals, so they probably compete on things, and the fact that you had sex with him, is a HUGE destroyer to his ego. If you tell him, maybe in time, he can trust you again, but never fully. If you don't, then it'll be bell when he finds out.
If it doesn't work, then lesson learned for the next guy. No one is perfect.70 ReplyHe should most definitely be told.
Don't fool yourself into thinking "I've gotten away with it, the less he knows the better" think about how bad you feel about it now, after two weeks. If you see a real future with this person and you two do end up staying together do you want to live with that guilt for the next few years?
He should be told and be allowed to make his own decision on what he wants to do. In the end you cannot blame him for any decision he makes.
Also, I feel it should be noted that it is as much your fault that you had sex with his friend that it is his. And while your mind came up with a few reasons why it isn't your fault and that it's okay because their not good friends etc ect. that has nothing to do with it and is still just as bad.
If I cheated on my girlfriend is it okay because it was with a random stranger? No. no it isn't.50 Reply
+1 yCome on there's nothing such as "Accidentally cheated" ok? You don't "accidentally" have sex with someone. His penis didn't "accidentally" go into your vagina. You know they are friends, why the fuck are you doing this?
Yes, you made a mistake, and it's INTENTIONALLY, not "accidentally" like you said. My thought on this is if you don't tell him, chances are his friend will tell him. So you pick.72 Reply
Asker+1 yHis friend didn't say anything.
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Are you sure he will shut up for the rest of his life? Your boyfriend deserves the truth.
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You made a conscious decision to cheat. Own up to it. If you can see a future with him dont you think he deserves to know what happened?421 Reply- +1 y
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+1 yClearly your bf is not the guy for you if you gave in that easily to temptation. Some part of you is not satisfied with the relationship if you gave in to the friend's flirts that easily. You need to be single for a while to get your head clear. There's no need to keep a relationship alive with lies. The longer you wait, the more he'll be upset and he will definitely believe that it happened one more time. Chances are he may get even upset enough to bitch slap you. In any case, I don't see the point in staying with a man that you're not fully compatible with.
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+1 y"Accidentally cheated"
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This is MHO XD lmao
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@05Jueey lol right @front2back nice clip and jealous on your up votes lol
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this made me laugh so hard, this is the best comment ever!
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Hahahaha😂😂😂
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+1 yits your life, do what you gotta do, you already read the main opinions of the people on this post.
just remember though.. and im not saying this to be rude.. karma is a bitch.
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True. This one girl used to cheat on people and then she finally got married. Her husband of 12 years cheated on her and dumped her. Karma.
+1 yHow did you accidentally cheat? Did you trip and fall on his dick or did he trip and fall into your pussy. You feel guilty now but don't call it an accident a mistake maybe but you know what you were doing when you were doing it and I absolutely hate when people like you say not to judge. When you give us information we form our opinions based on that. WTF do people think this site is really for? Honestly lol
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Exactly!
First you're a kid. Your couple future by that token alone looks bleak.
Second you aren't really in love with him. If you were you wouldn't have cheated.
Third if they do hate each other, any small fall out between these two guys is enough for the word to get out about what you did. If not that, the guy might just brag because he won't care about either one of you, or your relationship. This is a ticking time bomb anyway.
Break up now and don't tell him. It will hurt your reputation and chances to get into a decent relationship once you actually sprout a brain in your twenties.40 ReplyA) if he didn't rape you, then yes you should feel guilty. Because that means that you gave him the ok to have sex with you.
B) yes you should tell your boyfriend, flip the situation, would you want to know if he cheated on you?
C) if he truly loves you he will be hurt but if you make sure to up front say I fucked up, I am so sorry, I am telling you that I did this because I love you, I don't want to hide things from you, and I want your forgiveness then he will still love you. DONT PLAY THE VICTIM WHEN YOU TELL HIM. Tell him that YOU did this don't say, your friend had sex with me, say I had sex with your friend, and it was wrong. If you play the victim he will be mad and probably leave you.40 ReplyYou can't post a question like this without people discussing your "accidental cheating". I mean, it's an opinion site, and people are gonna have pretty strong opinions about your characterization of the cheating.
I think you should tell your boyfriend what happened, and I think you need to claim total responsibility for your actions. Calling it an accident when you tell him about it would just be more of a slap to the face.241 Reply- +1 y
definitely a slap in the face
875 opinions shared on Other topic. This makes me very very angry. I'm trying my best not to put you on fucking blast right now. You don't seem to understand the seriousness of this. You should do your bf a favor and break up with him. He deserves much better than you. How selfish are you that you cheat on him and even after doing so you selfishly think of only yourself when making the decision to not tell him for two months? You don't care about his future you only care about yours. Do you not even feel remorse? You say you don't want to hurt his feelings. Well you certainly didn't want to hurt his feelings when you "accidentally" cheated on him did you? Stop making the excuse that you made a mistake. You didn't care about him while you were cheating and you don't care about him now. This makes me sick because I've been in your boyfriends shoes. I've been cheated on and maybe if a guy cheats on your that you really love maybe then you will really ze how shitty of a feeling it is. Rant over.
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+1 yNo-one ever accidentally cheats. That would be like accidentally murdering someone, because you were encouraged to do it. It's time to take responsibility for actions.
Tell your boyfriend that he can't trust you, and never will be able to. Then let him decide if he still wants to spend time with you.81 Reply- +1 y
Accidental murder is manslaughter
+1 yHow can that be an accident when you let the man fucking you until you both are satisfied? YOU ARE FUCKED UP!
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+1 yNo such thing as ''accidentally'' cheating on someone... Having said that, your boyfriend deserves to know the truth. Its better that it comes from you than from someone else. He will probably be hurt, but if you guys are meant to be together you can work through it together.
I always put myself in the other person's shoes. If your boyfriend cheated on you with your best friend, wouldn't you want to know the truth? Don't you deserve to know the truth?
You can choose not to tell him, but that is the kind of thing that will haunt you for the rest of your life. You will always be worried about whether or not he ever found out. And who knows, maybe he already knows and is just waiting for you to bring it up... Either way, I think he deserves to know the truth. I know I would want to20 Reply
+1 yI don't get how that was accidental but honestly, someone's going to get hurt , and I think its better u to tell him than for him to find out from someone else. Ure not alone, others make mistakes too. But this relationship is pretty done, there will be trust issues later and u may do it again. Cheating is a form of habit and cheaters love that rush of forbidden love.. Either way I was saying u should tell him.. Because if u care for him u would want him to know and if he can forgive.. U guys will probably give it another try.. But the trust issue will come out again later during an argument
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yOops! Your penis accidentally slipped into my accidentally unclothed vagina... again and again. And wouldn't you know it, we accidentally kept going until one (or both, if you made it worth the accident) of us accidentally got off.
^That's the dangers of wearing roller skates in the house after you just cleaned the place with butter, I suppose...110 ReplyHahahaha! Basically you Are saying that you guys were studying and somehow you fell onto his dick? Hahaha. there's no accidental cheating. Put yourself in your boyfriend's shoes. Would you forgive him or think it was ok if he accidentally had sex with your friend? Im not judging you but I have been there and im telling you right now your relationship is gonna get real bad because now that you did this would you ever let him be alone with a girl? Or even your friend? If you say no to that is because you Know the same thing could happen to him, if you said no then you really dont care about him. You should tell him and if he forgives you then you are lucky.
10 ReplyOkay well first of all, u had sex so that's more than a mistake, U must not like ur bf as much as u thought if your willing to just cheat on him like that, if u were drunk then at least there was kind of a reason but u were sober. But anyways. I think u should have told him right away to show that u were sorry, people in long term relationships shouldn't keep secrets like that and eventually it will get out and it will come back to bite u In the ass. The sooner u tell him the better bc even if u think they won't care they will, her cuz it happened 2 months ago doesn't mean the right thing to do is keep it a secret, if he truly loves u he will see it's a mistake and u will get through it.
10 Reply4.2K opinions shared on Other topic. Yeah I hate it when I accidentally slip and fall on dicks.
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omg I literally lol'd so hard at this
Stop trying to rationalize what you did, you fucked up. His "friend" is a backstabbing asshole and his "girlfriend" is a cheating ho... That poor guy. He deserves to know that he's surrounded himself with inconsiderate dumbasses so he can get rid of you both.
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"bro fist"
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jeanbean just dropped a huge bomb called "Reality" on this sloot. :O
Well, I really can understand if in what kinda situation you're going through.
And please for God sake don't get demoralized with all the stupid kinda hate comments over here.
I can understand that it happened but it wasn't like your choice!
But lemme just tell you one thing? If your Boy really loves you then he is gonna be damn hurt with this and he might be just so much angry too (I don't know if he's emotional or not)
But yeah he'll be very upset but he really won't be able to leave you for such an issue cause look I know it's bad but it just happened and you never wanted may be but what if your guy gets to know when your relation gets more serious and intense.! At that place both of you will get more hurt! So better confess that but if you love him really you ain't gonna leave him with your ego problems!
Good luck and smile! :)10 Reply
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yAccidental? You can help from cheating. And don't say that you shouldn't feel bad because he came on to you! You SHOULD feel bad, horrible actually. It wasn't just a guy it was one of his friends, and I hope you're just making this post for attention because I would hate to be the one who cheated, because you just ruined a lot. Ivebeen cheated on and it hurts a lot. But you need to take the blame, andyou need to tell him what happened truthfully. Because he needs someone who actually cares for him but if he wants to give you another chance that's his choice. Seriously though? You really put "accidental cheating" ... you do want attention. And don't say if you're just going to judge me, this sight is FOR OPINIONS, so don't asknif you're worried about some bad comments. Plus nobody knows who youare to say anything you're anonymous.
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+1 ystatic.fjcdn.com/pictures/Ya_523cb8_795315.jpg This pretty much sums it up
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LMFAO
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You're so funny. Yes, her post is so funny that it's not even worth calling her names. I'm cracking up right now. IMAO
+1 yYou did not "accidentally" cheat. You made the decision to do it. At least be mature and own up to your poor choices. Anyway, your boyfriend deserves to know.
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+1 yI always love when people say 'accidentally' in regards to cheating, it wasn't an accident.
Firstly, your boyfriend deserves to know.
Secondly, do you really want to have a relationship based on lies.
Thirdly, of course you should feel guilty.120 Reply Yes, you've made a mistake, and first of them is saying ya "accidentally" cheated on your boyfriend. No one "accidentally" cheats, furthermore, no one fucks "accidentally".
If ya want to feel better, ya should tell your boyfriend 'bout that, even though there's actually a high chance he will leave ya because of that, but at least ya shall feel ya've done the right thing.
peace40 ReplyYes you should feel guilty and lie to yourself about "accidentally cheating".
You didn't accidentally f*ck some other dude; you got horny and spread your legs even though you gave your word to another guy. Own up to it.
You should tell him the truth. He deserves to know.40 Reply
+1 yAlright, well I normally see these things from the persons (your) poiint of view, but I do not know how you could possibly do something like this by accident?
And you should tell him before he finds out by some other means, then whatever the consequences would have been if you told him, multiply that by x10 just because you kept if from him.40 Reply
5 moHow is that accidental? If he came onto you, you still agreed to have sex with him. Also, I don't think the bond between your boyfriend and his friend really matters.
That said, it helps that they're not that tight. This way, it might never come out. If you see a future with him, keep the secret at all times. If you want him to ever know, tell him now. That way he can make the choice to forgive you or break up, without the relationship taking more of his time.
There is another chance. He might like it if you bang other guys. If that's the case, find out by hinting. Tell him how it makes you feel if you see hot guys and see how he reacts. If he likes it, step it up and hint on you wanting sex with another guy. If he's up for that, do it a couple of times and tell him. If he likes that, you can tell him that you fucked his best friend before it all started.00 ReplyYou should feel incredibly guilty! This is on you as much as him by your own admission he didn't force himself on you and you could have said no. Being drunk isn't an excuse if you drive drunk and kill someone the fact you did it drunk doesn't bring them back to life. You cheated on him and now you need to come clean and beg him to forgive you if you even think you deserve it. This is disgusting behavior and the fact you think they don't like each other makes it worse not better! You're a terrible human being for doing this and I wouldn't be this mean in most cases but you barely seem to care you sociopath!
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+1 yIt's ok you're under 18 so it's perfectly normal for you to get drunk off of 1 beer and cheat on the person you are "in love with" :)
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Its sarcasm for the people who disliked it.. or. I hope so lol
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4 idiots so far that have no clue about sarcasm
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Hahaha I was only being half sarcastic
2.5K opinions shared on Other topic. There's no such thing as accidental cheating. But whatever you have to say to justify yourself.
141 ReplyWow to make matters worse, you did it with a guy, who you think he absolutely hates. If i had a gf who did that to me, i would both made you regret it so badly. ... shame on you for cheating on your BF i hope he dumps you! I wish i could beat up people, hurt them accidently and go out free. that would mean, i wouldn't be sitting behind my pc right now, but making some visits to certain people, and when the police comes by i will tell them, sorry accident:P wow that would be great:D
30 ReplyThe way you seem to take no responsibility for your own actions makes it hard not to judge.
You are the one who cheated on your boyfriend, it doesn't matter who it was with, friend or enemy.
You are responsible for your own actions, and you cheated, it's not as if you slipped and fell on him and accidentally had sex.30 Reply
+1 yOk first of all, you SHOULD feel bad and doesn't matter if he came onto you or not. The fact that you let him and you had sex was a big mistake. You should tell him, what would you want your bf to do if he did something like that? You would want to know so tell him that this happened. Needless to say he will be angry and hurt but either you should break up with him if you dont wanna tell him OR tell him.
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+1 yToo late but it looks like you're one very horny chick that could cheat again.
120 Reply 369 opinions shared on Other topic. Of course you should feel guilty if yo were in a relationship. There's no accidental there, you wanted the guy you cheated with, and he wanted it too. If you ask me, none of you were really good to the guy with the horns right now.
If you really care about the guy, never tell him.32 Reply- +1 y
Yeah I know it'd break his heart, so don't tell him. But doesn't he deserve the chance to find someone who wouldn't do that to him. Or have the. Chance to make his own decision of the even and what to do next?
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Of course he does, but you thinking it makes me think that you're wanting out of that relationship, knowing that you agree with me on the "no tell, no hurt" thing. Listen, if you do consider he needs someone else (meaning you're not that in love with him) let him go easily... no need to tell him you cheated with his friend.
It takes 2 to tango, if you only blame him for it than it was non-consentual or rape. I gurantee you that the other guy who you "accidently cheated" with won't stay quite. He might be for now but in the future if there is a fight between him and you BF, he's going to let it slip as a means to humiliate and emasculate him. What you doing to do than? So its better you tell you bf, sure water down it a bit but tell him.
30 ReplyI'm just going to say it; you're a bitch. You've created a flimsy excuse for your actions, deny any responsibility, and seek validation for you're lack of guilt. My advice is to tell your boyfriend but don't be surprised when breaks up with your lying cheating bitchy ass.
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+1 yOne does not "accidentally" cheat on their significant other. you should feel bad, no matter if he was a stranger in the street. You already did ruin the relationship, so be a big girl and tell him. Even if they aren't that great of friends he probably played you to tell him, "I slept with your girl and she isn't the girl for you." what's done in the dark comes to light. I'm just sayin.
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 ySo two months ago you and your boyfriend's pal were doing homework, and you took a break and decided he could take a picture on his cellphone for your boyfriend to have, but then he got really hot and pulled his pants down, then you fell down and your mouth landed directly on his penis, then you thought of something really funny and looked up at him, smiled and gave like a thumbs up, and he took the picture on his iPhone, then he's gonna show everyone at school and they're all gonna laugh at you?
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+1 yHope you enjoyed your 2 year relationship, he's either going to find out himself or you're gonna tell him.
Say bye bye to your boyfriend. Hahahahahaga81 Reply- +1 y
too funny xDD
809 opinions shared on Other topic. That's not an accident and yes you should feel guilty. If you're a good person, which I'm going to give the benifit of the doubt and assume you are most of the time, then you'll tell him.
80 ReplyI wouldn't say accidentally cause you didn't say anything about being drunk or on drugs. Anyway if I where you I wouldn't say anything. Sometimes things happen and it's best to not say anything about it. All you can hope for is that his friend never says anything eather
10 ReplyYou "accidentally" cheated?
Come on. You know it wasn't an accident. Have some integrity.164 Reply1.5K opinions shared on Other topic. How does one "accidentally" cheat? That's laughable
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Lol I know right
There is no such thing as accidental cheating
You are one horny slut that cheated on her boyfriend for no reason
And that "friend" is more of a fiend
You should both get a great punishment for hurting your boyfriend
I hate to offend people but people like you should be offended badly30 Reply
+1 yYour bf needs to accidentally dump your ass. Are you kidding?
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+1 yhttps://i.hizliresim.com/vooG2R.png
You should obviously tell him about it. He deserves to know the truth.70 ReplyAccidently cheated? Voluntary interactions are not accidents. You have a warped sense of responsibility.
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It's a defense mechanism made up by the mind.
She came up with "good" reasons why it is okay because her mind knows how wrong it is. It is protecting her form harm. We all do this, some of us just don't listen to the bullshit excuses our minds create for us.
It's one part of growing up. - +1 y
^ this
You fucked up. You should tell your boyfriend. Its immoral to have him believing that your faithful and everything is dandy when you screwed his friend.
You should feel guilty. Nock that bullshit off and stop playing your boyfriend. Tell him the truth.
No fucking morals today I swear.10 Reply
+1 yRight. You "accidentally" cheated on your boyfriend. I suppose next time you'll be asking for help because you "accidentally" bought an outfit that was too expensive or "accidentally" dressed like a slut.
70 Replythere is no such thing as "accidentally cheating". please dont justify or sugar coat your crime now
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+1 yWhat did you do trip on to his penis over and over again?
90 Replyhow did u accidentally cheat? Did you trip, fall and land on his dick?
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LOL awesome
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Best comment I've ever seen on this site 😂👏
+1 y"My boyfriends friend started being flirty and touching me and at first I thought he was just playing around but we ended up having sex."
Well, that escalated quickly.51 Reply- +1 y
Lol ikr.
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