Okay well first of all, u had sex so that's more than a mistake, U must not like ur bf as much as u thought if your willing to just cheat on him like that, if u were drunk then at least there was kind of a reason but u were sober. But anyways. I think u should have told him right away to show that u were sorry, people in long term relationships shouldn't keep secrets like that and eventually it will get out and it will come back to bite u In the ass. The sooner u tell him the better bc even if u think they won't care they will, her cuz it happened 2 months ago doesn't mean the right thing to do is keep it a secret, if he truly loves u he will see it's a mistake and u will get through it.
Stop trying to rationalize what you did, you fucked up. His "friend" is a backstabbing asshole and his "girlfriend" is a cheating ho... That poor guy. He deserves to know that he's surrounded himself with inconsiderate dumbasses so he can get rid of you both.
Well, I really can understand if in what kinda situation you're going through. And please for God sake don't get demoralized with all the stupid kinda hate comments over here. I can understand that it happened but it wasn't like your choice! But lemme just tell you one thing? If your Boy really loves you then he is gonna be damn hurt with this and he might be just so much angry too (I don't know if he's emotional or not) But yeah he'll be very upset but he really won't be able to leave you for such an issue cause look I know it's bad but it just happened and you never wanted may be but what if your guy gets to know when your relation gets more serious and intense.! At that place both of you will get more hurt! So better confess that but if you love him really you ain't gonna leave him with your ego problems! Good luck and smile! :)
You did not "accidentally" cheat. You made the decision to do it. At least be mature and own up to your poor choices. Anyway, your boyfriend deserves to know.
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Accidental? You can help from cheating. And don't say that you shouldn't feel bad because he came on to you! You SHOULD feel bad, horrible actually. It wasn't just a guy it was one of his friends, and I hope you're just making this post for attention because I would hate to be the one who cheated, because you just ruined a lot. Ivebeen cheated on and it hurts a lot. But you need to take the blame, andyou need to tell him what happened truthfully. Because he needs someone who actually cares for him but if he wants to give you another chance that's his choice. Seriously though? You really put "accidental cheating" ... you do want attention. And don't say if you're just going to judge me, this sight is FOR OPINIONS, so don't asknif you're worried about some bad comments. Plus nobody knows who youare to say anything you're anonymous.
I always love when people say 'accidentally' in regards to cheating, it wasn't an accident.
Firstly, your boyfriend deserves to know. Secondly, do you really want to have a relationship based on lies. Thirdly, of course you should feel guilty.
Yes, you've made a mistake, and first of them is saying ya "accidentally" cheated on your boyfriend. No one "accidentally" cheats, furthermore, no one fucks "accidentally".
If ya want to feel better, ya should tell your boyfriend 'bout that, even though there's actually a high chance he will leave ya because of that, but at least ya shall feel ya've done the right thing.
Yes you should feel guilty and lie to yourself about "accidentally cheating". You didn't accidentally f*ck some other dude; you got horny and spread your legs even though you gave your word to another guy. Own up to it.
You should tell him the truth. He deserves to know.
Alright, well I normally see these things from the persons (your) poiint of view, but I do not know how you could possibly do something like this by accident?
And you should tell him before he finds out by some other means, then whatever the consequences would have been if you told him, multiply that by x10 just because you kept if from him.
Wow to make matters worse, you did it with a guy, who you think he absolutely hates. If i had a gf who did that to me, i would both made you regret it so badly. ... shame on you for cheating on your BF i hope he dumps you! I wish i could beat up people, hurt them accidently and go out free. that would mean, i wouldn't be sitting behind my pc right now, but making some visits to certain people, and when the police comes by i will tell them, sorry accident:P wow that would be great:D
The way you seem to take no responsibility for your own actions makes it hard not to judge. You are the one who cheated on your boyfriend, it doesn't matter who it was with, friend or enemy. You are responsible for your own actions, and you cheated, it's not as if you slipped and fell on him and accidentally had sex.
Ok first of all, you SHOULD feel bad and doesn't matter if he came onto you or not. The fact that you let him and you had sex was a big mistake. You should tell him, what would you want your bf to do if he did something like that? You would want to know so tell him that this happened. Needless to say he will be angry and hurt but either you should break up with him if you dont wanna tell him OR tell him.
Of course you should feel guilty if yo were in a relationship. There's no accidental there, you wanted the guy you cheated with, and he wanted it too. If you ask me, none of you were really good to the guy with the horns right now.
Yeah I know it'd break his heart, so don't tell him. But doesn't he deserve the chance to find someone who wouldn't do that to him. Or have the. Chance to make his own decision of the even and what to do next?
Of course he does, but you thinking it makes me think that you're wanting out of that relationship, knowing that you agree with me on the "no tell, no hurt" thing. Listen, if you do consider he needs someone else (meaning you're not that in love with him) let him go easily... no need to tell him you cheated with his friend.
It takes 2 to tango, if you only blame him for it than it was non-consentual or rape. I gurantee you that the other guy who you "accidently cheated" with won't stay quite. He might be for now but in the future if there is a fight between him and you BF, he's going to let it slip as a means to humiliate and emasculate him. What you doing to do than? So its better you tell you bf, sure water down it a bit but tell him.
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Okay well first of all, u had sex so that's more than a mistake, U must not like ur bf as much as u thought if your willing to just cheat on him like that, if u were drunk then at least there was kind of a reason but u were sober. But anyways. I think u should have told him right away to show that u were sorry, people in long term relationships shouldn't keep secrets like that and eventually it will get out and it will come back to bite u In the ass. The sooner u tell him the better bc even if u think they won't care they will, her cuz it happened 2 months ago doesn't mean the right thing to do is keep it a secret, if he truly loves u he will see it's a mistake and u will get through it.
Yeah I hate it when I accidentally slip and fall on dicks.
omg I literally lol'd so hard at this
OMG that was so funny
Stop trying to rationalize what you did, you fucked up. His "friend" is a backstabbing asshole and his "girlfriend" is a cheating ho... That poor guy. He deserves to know that he's surrounded himself with inconsiderate dumbasses so he can get rid of you both.
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Wooo! *bro fist*
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Well, I really can understand if in what kinda situation you're going through.
And please for God sake don't get demoralized with all the stupid kinda hate comments over here.
I can understand that it happened but it wasn't like your choice!
But lemme just tell you one thing? If your Boy really loves you then he is gonna be damn hurt with this and he might be just so much angry too (I don't know if he's emotional or not)
But yeah he'll be very upset but he really won't be able to leave you for such an issue cause look I know it's bad but it just happened and you never wanted may be but what if your guy gets to know when your relation gets more serious and intense.! At that place both of you will get more hurt! So better confess that but if you love him really you ain't gonna leave him with your ego problems!
Good luck and smile! :)
static.fjcdn.com/pictures/Ya_523cb8_795315.jpg This pretty much sums it up
"Accidently"
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Dying laughing!!!
LMFAO
LOL thanks for making me laugh on my lunch break. That was great hahahahaha
You're so funny. Yes, her post is so funny that it's not even worth calling her names. I'm cracking up right now. IMAO
You did not "accidentally" cheat. You made the decision to do it. At least be mature and own up to your poor choices. Anyway, your boyfriend deserves to know.
Accidental? You can help from cheating. And don't say that you shouldn't feel bad because he came on to you! You SHOULD feel bad, horrible actually. It wasn't just a guy it was one of his friends, and I hope you're just making this post for attention because I would hate to be the one who cheated, because you just ruined a lot. Ivebeen cheated on and it hurts a lot. But you need to take the blame, andyou need to tell him what happened truthfully. Because he needs someone who actually cares for him but if he wants to give you another chance that's his choice. Seriously though? You really put "accidental cheating" ... you do want attention. And don't say if you're just going to judge me, this sight is FOR OPINIONS, so don't asknif you're worried about some bad comments. Plus nobody knows who youare to say anything you're anonymous.
I always love when people say 'accidentally' in regards to cheating, it wasn't an accident.
Firstly, your boyfriend deserves to know.
Secondly, do you really want to have a relationship based on lies.
Thirdly, of course you should feel guilty.
It's ok you're under 18 so it's perfectly normal for you to get drunk off of 1 beer and cheat on the person you are "in love with" :)
This. Seriously.
Its sarcasm for the people who disliked it.. or. I hope so lol
4 idiots so far that have no clue about sarcasm
Hahaha I was only being half sarcastic
There's no such thing as accidental cheating. But whatever you have to say to justify yourself.
"I accidentally ran over that child in the street when I saw her & didn't hit my brake."
The Court bought that one! :D #nawt
Yes, you've made a mistake, and first of them is saying ya "accidentally" cheated on your boyfriend. No one "accidentally" cheats, furthermore, no one fucks "accidentally".
If ya want to feel better, ya should tell your boyfriend 'bout that, even though there's actually a high chance he will leave ya because of that, but at least ya shall feel ya've done the right thing.
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Yes you should feel guilty and lie to yourself about "accidentally cheating".
You didn't accidentally f*ck some other dude; you got horny and spread your legs even though you gave your word to another guy. Own up to it.
You should tell him the truth. He deserves to know.
Alright, well I normally see these things from the persons (your) poiint of view, but I do not know how you could possibly do something like this by accident?
And you should tell him before he finds out by some other means, then whatever the consequences would have been if you told him, multiply that by x10 just because you kept if from him.
Wow to make matters worse, you did it with a guy, who you think he absolutely hates. If i had a gf who did that to me, i would both made you regret it so badly. ... shame on you for cheating on your BF i hope he dumps you! I wish i could beat up people, hurt them accidently and go out free. that would mean, i wouldn't be sitting behind my pc right now, but making some visits to certain people, and when the police comes by i will tell them, sorry accident:P wow that would be great:D
The way you seem to take no responsibility for your own actions makes it hard not to judge.
You are the one who cheated on your boyfriend, it doesn't matter who it was with, friend or enemy.
You are responsible for your own actions, and you cheated, it's not as if you slipped and fell on him and accidentally had sex.
Ok first of all, you SHOULD feel bad and doesn't matter if he came onto you or not. The fact that you let him and you had sex was a big mistake. You should tell him, what would you want your bf to do if he did something like that? You would want to know so tell him that this happened. Needless to say he will be angry and hurt but either you should break up with him if you dont wanna tell him OR tell him.
Too late but it looks like you're one very horny chick that could cheat again.
Of course you should feel guilty if yo were in a relationship. There's no accidental there, you wanted the guy you cheated with, and he wanted it too. If you ask me, none of you were really good to the guy with the horns right now.
If you really care about the guy, never tell him.
Yeah I know it'd break his heart, so don't tell him. But doesn't he deserve the chance to find someone who wouldn't do that to him. Or have the. Chance to make his own decision of the even and what to do next?
Of course he does, but you thinking it makes me think that you're wanting out of that relationship, knowing that you agree with me on the "no tell, no hurt" thing. Listen, if you do consider he needs someone else (meaning you're not that in love with him) let him go easily... no need to tell him you cheated with his friend.
It takes 2 to tango, if you only blame him for it than it was non-consentual or rape. I gurantee you that the other guy who you "accidently cheated" with won't stay quite. He might be for now but in the future if there is a fight between him and you BF, he's going to let it slip as a means to humiliate and emasculate him. What you doing to do than? So its better you tell you bf, sure water down it a bit but tell him.