Accidently cheated on my boyfriend with his friend? (Page 2)

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I accidently cheated on my boyfriend with his friend. We were all at my house (my bf, me, his friend) because we were working on a school project together and my boyfriend had to leave early and left the two of us to finish the project. My boyfriends friend started being flirty and touching me and at first I thought he was just playing around but we ended up having sex. I haven't told my boyfriend yet because I don't want to ruin our 2 year relationship and It's already been 2 months this happened and he has no idea. I feel kind of bad though. I know I shouldn't feel bad because his friend came onto me and they aren't even that great of friends. I think they secretly hate each other. We are all 17 by the way. Should I feel guilty? It's been so long so there's no point in telling my bf right? I can see a real future with my bf so I don't think I should tell him about accidently cheating on him. He seems to really love me and I don't want to hurt his feelings.

Lena19 · Answer

You don't make a mistake whenever you free willingly allow another man to touch you, seriously why would you even allow him to touch you whenever you are in a "committed" relationship, and then head off to bed with him. You free willingly agreed to it even though you are in a relationship with someone. Do you have any pride in yourself?

Anonymous · Answer

Unless you where naked, slip on the floor, and landed on his erect dick, then it wasn't an accident.
You are to blame, just as much as your friend, and you should feel bad! I feel bad for your boyfriend, I really do. You proved that you have no self control. And you will just give in, and let people fuck you.

Hopefuldreamer8 · Answer

I don't know how you accidentally cheat on someone. You could have told him to get away from you, but you didn't. You had sex with him, and you're trying to put the blame all on him just because he started it. You seem to think you're not responsible for your own actions. You should tell him the truth so he can dump you. You're horrible and you deserve to be alone for the rest of your life.

RationalLioness · Answer

You didn't "accidentally" cheat. You made the conscious decision to. You betrayed your boyfriend's trust. How would you like him to do the same to you?

The MHO is ridiculous. You should feel guilty. The fact that you don't tells me that your boyfriend deserves better.

Man4DaJoB · Answer

first when u said he is your bf's friend i thought u kissed... out of nowhere you just fucked?
by the way you wrote the thread u looks like u are belittling what you've done and that is a big deal 2 just ignore
my advise is stop playing around and you have to confess (it's a must) if you wabt this relationship 2 workout

UglyKevin · Answer

LOL how do you accidental cheat on someone? That's like me going to a bank stealing all the money and saying it was an accident.

GalaxyHotChoc · Answer

I think you meant to say 'accidentally on purpose'
You don't post dumb questions like this and expect people not to judge you, i hope your boyfriend dumps your ass for your 'accidental cheating'. Grow up the hell up.

BrunetteNYC · Answer

Well this is not a cool thing to do yet stop and think for a minute - guys so this ALL the time to their girlfriends. I'm not saying it's right, or that justifies it, but it's reality... and just don't do it again.

Anonymous · Answer

There's no such thing as "accidentally" cheating. Perhaps you were caught up in the moment. Imagine if your boyfriend did the same to you. Would you want him to tell you? I assume so.

Nujabes123 · Answer

u don't accidently have sex... maybe kiss XD I think you need to tell him as soon as possible

Strider90 · Answer

Accidentally. yeah right. You should feel guilty and if you find sometime out that he cheated on you too, don't get mad at him. See it as a divine retribution.

popcorn35 · Answer

nothing happened accidentally !! you both felt attracted :o
so, you don't have to tell him it now because it just happened months away.
and yes, you should feel kinda guilty, but not anymore !
forget it ;)

Insaan · Answer

DO ME A FAVOUR. JUMP FROM THE BUILDING. THAT WOULD BE A GOOD ACCIDENT FOR US ALL.

Peptalk · Answer

Would be best to not tell him. Most good guys (as your boyfriend seems to be) can't take heartbreak so he just might leave you. Just hope he doesn't find out from the "friend" or it will be worse than if he heard it from you.

justaregularguyy · Answer

That's not accidental, you're just a bad person :( Sorry, maybe tell your boyfriend you fucked up? It's not right to cheat... ever

cesvcarl0s · Answer

Hun, you cheated.. and probably wreck whatever relationship is left between all of you. Just tell him the truth and grow up.

GreenSpice · Answer

How does someone accidentally has sex with someone else? Maybe a drunken kiss, I might buy the ''accidental'' excuse but pure sex?

Anonymous · Answer

Sorry to say... but I'd dump you. There was nothing accidental about this. You CHOSE to fuck this other guy.

HeatherJaney · Answer

Yeah he slipped and fell into your vagina...

rUinSAYAN · Answer

"I see a future with him" "accidently" "over 2 years" "2 months already"
if this was a parody it would be a good one. how can he love a cheater? I hope it will keep your guilt till your death if he gets to marry u

Anonymous · Answer

This is no accident. People do make mistakes, but you have to admit that it was no accident.

You should let him know. Do the right thing and let him know what his friend did and that he deserves better than you

Do the right thing :)

CourtLove57 · Answer

Definitely not an accident and if you're really human you should feel guilty lol. But I think you should tell him. It's fair to him.

recoverypink · Answer

It's probably fine if you keep it a secret, but if anything ever comes up about it later on then just try not to lie to him. You don't want trust issues do you?

Cómoestás · Answer

Haven't told him in 2 months? You don't deserve him. Cheating never is accidental

Trustme_Im-lying · Answer

i feel sorry for the guy... :) a traitor friend and a cheater girl friend. tsk! tsk! tough life...

grashopper · Answer

I believe it was only an accident. These kind of things do happen from time to time without our conscious decision. Give this girl a break alright?

beastman88 · Answer

ho bags everywhere lately

Anonymous · Answer

It is your fault and you could have stopped it, you thrw two years away because his friend was horny, if you dont tell your boyfriend then you are a seldish person who does not deserve any good thing in life.

RedThread · Answer

What like he tripped and you fell?

Anonymous · Answer

well don't be surprised if your boyfriend accidentally dumps you.

ledfoot64 · Answer

leave it be don't say nothing to him don't lose no sleep worring about it

Lamara · Answer

did you slip and fall vagina first on his penis? if not, then it was not an accident. tell your boyfriend. how much of a future can you see with this guy at 17 anyway?

Anonymous · Answer

You don't accidentally cheat on somebody, tell him. he has a right to know and dump your ass.

Anonymous · Answer

I couldn't take your question seriously once you said you accidentally cheated

DontDropIt · Answer

All I read was the title. You don't accidentally cheat on someone. LOL

Chief16 · Answer

Well. What can I say... You don't accidentally cheat on anyone. At the very least clear it up with your guy. What if his friend tells him?

Anonymous · Answer

I think you should tell your boyfriend everything... and breakup with him.. you are no good for him... you don't love him... let him have someone better who doesn't cheat... and sex is never accidental

TripleAce · Answer

LOL  I dont think she meant accident, I think she meant to say she made a mistake which is clearly very possible when it comes to cheating.

legalboxers · Answer

they aren't "Accidents" feelings were there, things happened

Anonymous · Answer

Gunna play the devils advocate and question what was missing that you did that and at 17? I'm not excusing your actions, but this is just all wrong. You're too young to take on the responsibility of sex and relationships.

blondfrog · Answer

Its dishonest how would you feel if your bf cheated on you?

yaddayaddayadda02 · Answer

Accidental? Hahahaha

Pouchon · Answer

You should tell him before his friend tell him or before he find out on his own

theCatcherintheRye · Answer

if you cheated you cheated. there is no "accidental" in cheating.

Anonymous · Answer

"accidentally" lol fucking whore kill yourself gonna go anon so u can't block and i can continue to harass <3

IsabelleBk · Answer

Damn, you're easy!

Anonymous · Answer

No forget about why can't you still be doing them both.

douride2 · Answer

Accidentally cheated how does it happen?

EvilPimp · Answer

accidently cheated? LOL!!

kangy · Answer

You can't accidentally cheated?

bumblebritches5 · Answer

Accidently got caught* is what you mean.

Wood-Carver777 · Answer

Everybody sing "hey! Hoe X3. *applause*

Anonymous · Answer

I accidentally had sex with a gopher last week.

Infernuss · Answer

How to avoid accidents: cross your legs!

tzdc21 · Answer

How does that accidentally happen?

Anonymous · Answer

How hot was the sex with the friend?

Anonymous · Answer

Did you only do it once?

Anonymous · Answer

man it sucks tripping and falling into a vagina

Anonymous · Answer

This is almost as good as the Bieber roast!

cats98 · Answer

so accidental!

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