Actually he’s my ex. If it’s not including the things that he cheated on me I would say he’s the best boyfriend I have ever dated. I was wrong that I trust what he said. We are in long distance relationship before we met and during the time we in long distance relationship he had sex with many girls almost 10 times and he even said that his dick couldn’t get hard. I gave him all my heart, I loved him so much and I thought I would have kids and be his wife but I always chose a wrong guy in my life. My family warn me about him and told me to break up with him. He told me he was mad at me that I talked to another guy so he go to pound another girls p**** so the whole time I been with him it’s just bullshit
My boyfriend cheated on me with an escort for around 10 times when we’re in a long distance relationship, what should I do?
1) Long Distance Relationships don’t work for this very reason. You should expect cheating.
2) He probably isn’t lying about not getting hard/getting robbed for the escorts. I’ve tried it myself, and I just couldn’t get turned on. No orgasm. Waste of money. If that makes you feel any better, he is probably telling you the truth.
3) You will never forgive or forget that he cheated. So you can try hanging onto the relationship but it will probably make you more sad. You will get mad and angry just being around him and talking to him will just keep reminding you of him cheating. I know this because it’s happening to me
4) I stayed together with my fiancé after she cheated but I’m getting a prenup and I have no plans on staying faithful to her. You can lay down your own rules to your boyfriend if you want to keep him. For example: He has to give you access to all his emails and social media. He has to have a tracker app so you know where he’s going. He has to give you his bank account information so you know what he’s spending his money on. It can give you all the security you want. He probably won’t cheat on you again for a long time, possibly never. It isn’t gonna make you feel better though.
5) You are going to go through a bunch of stages of grief. You will ask why. How. What he did. Details. Anger. Sorrow. Anger. You are going to cry a lot. It’s best if you don’t ask him the details. It’s only going to make you feel worse.
In my opinion, you should just break up. You are already long distance. Just cut contact. You will feel loads better after some time. You can find a new person who doesn’t have a history. New memories. It’s not worth suffering through grief. Im being a hypocrite because I stayed with my cheater fiancé but I have no plans of actually committing. Im just using her for sex until I find a better girl. That’s my personal revenge.
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He offer me a money in another two months and he will take me to a trip to Turkey in May so I keep him as a friend and I got his email and his bank account and even his iCloud and I have a plan to go to island with a another guy. I told him if he cheat again he needs to tell me but I didn’t promise him if I’m gonna have another guys or not. I cut him off like in 1 day. It hurts asf and I want a revenge
Please please do not put trash in this young woman’s head. I lost my baby with this woman I DO LOVE her and will look out for HER FUTURE with or without me. Look she lies to me all the time she told me I was weak I didn’t find out she was pregnant until Christmas Eve when she lost her baby. She’s emotionally unstable, but I see she’s popular, y’all must find her interesting (me too).
I had very good reason to believe she was cheating and honestly when I’m supporting her it’s a LDR and we haven’t met I was just so hurt and did what I did. I actually grew a lot from this. She’s been the most important relationship by far in my entire life. I just want the best for her.
@Justerino I don't know bro you we’re screwing other girls so anything you have to say doesn’t mean anything. Best you leave her alone and move on with your life.
I’m not here to talk about what she did. If you seen the other guy she promised she’d stop talking to when we dated and I started supporting her send a pic of him busting over himself and her saying she wants to eat his cum, what would you do? Leave her obviously. Things haven’t been perfect between us but she cheated on me first as in had sex first with another guy and the guy I have an issue with the day before she becomes my “girlfriend”
She’s young, but I’m getting in early. At 28 she’s bad af. 38,48,58, bad af
And if she ever decides to be your girlfriend guarantee you’d keep her as well. She’s the best girl in the world she’s so much fun. I don’t know the word for it, the only thing I got is a surprise. She’s a brand new experience every day and even know it has had its up and downs our relationship feels organic to me. She has great taste in food an honestly she is just so F bomb, if you ever seen her touch her little brother or touch or kiss you you’d know exactly what I mean. Other guys love her too she is a real popular girl
still talk shit @Justerino ! He send me nudes , does it mean I fuck with him? I should just play the same games as he did! He needs to take a pill, you’re a lot better when u take medication.
You should dump him and forget about the whole thing. You shouldn't worry about someone like that liking you, you should worry about him doing right by you, and that is not only disrespectful but down right pathetic. I think we both know that you deserve much better than that, do not settle for less. Take care of yourself and hold your head high!
Tbh she slapped me and kicked me over 10x for putting a pillow in her ice cream cone because I was upset she was asking me to do that when I’m working and supporting her on that job. I grabbed her wrists thinking I was being gentle with her but she kept swinging on me. I did not squeeze her one bit and I did not shake her at all. She had a bruise on her wrist because SHE is shaking violently and I’m moving her hands away from my face, inbox by the way I was not angry in that moment and not trying to hurt her at all.
Next time yeah I’m standing their lowering my voice and she can hit me all she wants. She did throw a shoe at a girl once and make her lip bleed so I think I better be careful with her.
@Rabbagail he’s a jerk. he didn’t grab my wrist. He squeezed my arm. He yelled at me and called me a bitch and a hoe. The next morning he do the nasty things to me. He came on my face while I’m sleeping. He tryna kicked me out of his Airbnb
Sounds like true love…. if you can work through and survive the emotional chaos. Women need security and safety …loved. Men need respect. Within each person is a mess of human emotions… and we are all damaged inside. anything that isn’t loving and respectful is going to trigger the worst in you. This stuff can go very very bad in an instant especially when there’s a lack of maturity… which is the case here… two children.
You’re out of your mind going to turkey for 4 weeks together… better have some emotional support on both sides. What should you do? 3 -6 month break celebste while you sort out what is really going on.
This kinda stuff can go really bad … I don’t want to read about this in the headline news. Take responsibility for your emotional self and start working on yourself instead of hurting the other.
Find Jesus… Buddha… wisdom of Tao…whatever works your soul and what’s busted up inside you and start fixing that. Start learning together. Or break this off til you heal for the next person. That’s for both you.
Wow respect to you for your responses... He sounds like a dick. Block, delete and move on. Also maybe get yourself tested just in case for piece of mind... Sorry he did this he's a waste of space x
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Girl he's done it once, he will do it again, no consequences mean he won't change a thing! Get rid, you deserve someone who thinks the world of you and wouldn't even consider doing this. His excuses are lame af , just because he wore a condom or was "soft" which i highly doubt he was, isn't going to make anything better at all. No justification for what he done anyway and no lame arseexcuse will excuse him!! Go find yourself a man that puts 100% into you :)
If you haven't done nothing that would cause him to legitimately think you are cheating then there's a strong sign he's cheating or flirting with another woman behind your back.
Guilty people on a subconscious level will project their guilt and behaviors unto others.
Well, to cheat on someone with an escort 10 times is not worth it for you to stay with him, and then you said , he was the best boyfriend you've been with, I don't know what to say your cute and I've seen you around
You must dump him. Not only has he done it several times, he is trying to look for excuses for him to forgive you. He will only do it again. Find yourself someone who is closeby.
You are a pure hearted person because of this you won't even realise if the person is using for his benifits. I Just don't to see a nice girl like you walking on a wrong path
that is the problem with long distance relationships you really don't know what's going on, but he is your ex now
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Guy's a f-ing loser. Get rid of him. Have some respect for yourself.
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He acted like the best boyfriend because the goal of cheaters is to gain trust and hide their affair. Take him out of your life, I don't know who would date or even talk to the him he is worst kind of boyfriend we heard of
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