Well I don't blame him and I don't blame you. Reasons why is because as a human being, each human has the right to privacy and freedom to live their life their own way. So is it wrong for him to have passwords on his stuff? Nope, not even in the slightest, everyone does, I even have a password on my cellphone. Its not the fact I have anything to hide, just don't like when people snoop around through my stuff. I let my girlfriend one time log on my MSN because she wanted to, I didn't have anything to hide so I let her, she read an old letter where someone wrote me a poem when we were together at the time. I forgot to delete it and it bummed out my girlfriend. I changed my password and everything to prevent that from happening again. But if I cheated on her, I can understand her to being paranoid, but you have to come to final decision within yourself. You can't invade his privacy, if he gives you the option, cool, but if not then you have to let it go or walk. I know you want to trust him but its hard, but you have to pick either one, there is no in between =(. I wish you the best of luck.
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why are you with him, you are giving him permission to cheat, you're getting what you deserve
he's untrustworthy and isn't willing to give you access to the things he used to cheat while you're rebuilding your trust in him. what he wants (privacy and trust after he got caught cheating) is more important to him than what you need in order to rebuild that trust. leave him. He's behaving sneakily and is angry at your lack of trust that HE created by cheating. fuck that. he's a dick
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