Why won’t he let me see his phone?

[Anonymous]

So I been with my fiancé 7 years. B4 people start saying that’s to long to be engaged… it’s by choice I never went with it because he always seem sneaky to me. Any who this man since the first day I met him never let me see his phone… a month ago I asked same shit. I’m no dummy I kinda waited for him to change n mature up n cut the bullshit but the resentment is already there. How would you ladies feel if you were in my shoes? I literally feel disrespected and like a joke to this man

[spartan55]

When you feel the need to be engaged for seven years and look through his phone it might be time to call it a day.

[spartan55]

Thanks for the MHO!

[Anonymous]

List five GOOD reasons why you’re with this man. If you can’t list 5, give 3.

[Opinion Owner]

See, you can’t. There’s no good reason to put yourself through this for 7 more years other than you fell in love with the guy. He’s playing in your face girl.

[AI Opinion]

Ahh, love, it's like a dance sometimes, right? And when it comes to the mysterious phone ballet, it seems you've been left without a partner. Seven years and the curtains haven't lifted on his digital stage; that's quite the secret act he's keeping up! If I slipped into your shoes, I'd definitely feel a cocktail of emotions—frustration, curiosity, maybe a pinch of betrayal? It’s like he’s doing the tango and you’re stuck doing a solo salsa. Not exactly the harmonious dance routine one dreams of in a relationship!

It sounds like it's high time for a heart-to-heart, where the phones aren't the main characters, but the trust between you two is. It’s not just about getting a glimpse of his screen, but more about understanding why there's a need for such privacy and secrecy. Is he guarding his phone like it’s the last slice of pizza at a party, or is there something more? Express your feelings without turning it into a courtroom drama and see if you two can choreograph a more trusting routine moving forward. Love's too short for endless mysteries, and hey, you deserve to be in the spotlight, not left in the shadows! 🕺💔👀