He won't let me see his phone, concern?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend asked to see me phone and he went through my messages. When I asked to see his phone he locked it and wouldn't unlock it. He always go through my messages but I have yet to see his. He won't even let me peak at them. Should I be worried?

[sheikalana]

Yes, you should be concerned! First of all you should not even let him go though your phone even if you have nothing to hide. Each of you is entitled to privacy. Me and my husband never go through each other's phone or laptop or personal stuff I don't touch or move anything that belongs to him without asking him first and he does the same for me. My parents have been married for over thirty years and my mom always emphasizes how important it is to give each other space and privacy.

[kylee2437]

You might as well break up with him because this dynamic is toxic as hell, he looks as you as beneath him and he is in control

[madhatters4]

yes. it should be a concern. if he is going to be able to look at your phone then you should be able to look at his. and since he won't it's a clear red flag

[madhatters4]

thanks for MHO

[DarkWinterNights]

Lol what? He demanded to see your phone but won’t let you see his? This sounds like a textbook example of cheaters getting paranoid about being cheated on.

[Paris13]

Hiding something. Messages from his Friends (Boys and Or Girls or Both) Or He is Talking to Another or Could be Lewd Videos and or porn or Both. xxoo

[Dkc123]

Why think of the wirse..
May he's trying to to make u mad/insecure just to tease!!

[Drooogie4]

Yeah 100% you should be worried

[jahaims]

He is cheated, has cheated or does cheat

[jahaims]

is cheating *

[BigDog1989]

Good. His phone is HIS phone, NOT YOURS