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What do you think and why? what are the circumstances? Does it depend?
For me, I don't think it's always true. Yes sometimes it is but I think most of the time it isn't because you're not functioning properly. If the next day, whatever you did doesn't mean anything to you no matter wth you said or did, then this phrase doesn't apply. I don't like saying it's an excuse but it kind of is. When you're sober, you're more conscious and in control of who you are, you're the only one who defines you. So let's say you said "I love you" and it slipped while drunk, well the next day when you're sober and you feel good about it, then yeah the alcohol prob pushed you to express yourself. But if you feel embarrassed and not right, then no your drunken mind didn't speak for your sober thoughts. So no "the truth" didn't come out. Or if you just disrespected someone while drunk and you feel bad the next day and just not yourself, then again, your drunk self did not expose who you really are... but if you do feel slightly off but not quite sorry for your actions then yes the alcohol pushed you to expose yourself more.
So what do you guys feel or think of this overrated phrase?

Okay this guy literally is playing mind games with me obviously. I asked him if I was invited to his bday celebration downtown and he said yes ( wealso work together and have kissed and have done oral) i was happy and that was a week ago. I saw him at work a couple days ago and he said hi and acted kinda perverted like he was cool and he starting to act like he can have me when he wants kinda attitude I could tell and I brushed it off. So I texted him to come talk to me when he gets off and he said “ we will see” he gets off of work and then we see each other and he just leaves. I text him “ wow if you don’t wanna talk to me u could just say so” “ he pretended like he was ina. Hurry somewhere and then I said “ you know u don’t wanna talk to me anymore for whatever reason” he then avoided the topic and said “ you looked so good today” I said thanks and sent him a sexual meme and was like lol ! And he never answered so I texted him again hours later saying “ WOW NO SENSE OF HUMOR, anyways when is your birthday thing Saturday or Friday?” I knew it was on Saturday but just wanted him to text me but he didn’t And he never answered me and today is Saturday and it’s his bday and I’m wondering if I’m even invited anymore. Should I text him again? Or just leave it and ignore him because I don't know wtf I did. He said I looked good yet never texted me and keep acting like this?