Search Results: should i just get over my ex

Me and he are in a serious relationship since 2 years now ( his family knows about me and my family, except my dad knows about him). He is most of the times too rude for no reason like he asks me my salary and I asked him that if he loves me then why does he see me so low? he finally confessed to me that He has trust issues and is unable to still open up because he said - " I am scared, I am unable to express because of my ex "

I have trust issues too because he follows random girls on insta and cuts my calls abruptly as he has two jobs. He explained me that he also cuts his mom's calls as he has two jobs and that I shouldn't feel bad.

When he said me that he would have slapped me if he was there in person because someone from a fake account texted a girl he followed on instagram ( he just follows one girl on instagram) - " he is cheating on you ", it got me on my nerves ( I felt too bad thinking he is sounding like he would abuse me). I couldn't sleep all night after that conversation over call.

I have finally expressed to him that I was emotionally abused by dad since childhood like him tont, belittling me, sometimes physically abuse like slapping ( my bro protects me and mom) and I don't know what it is like to have a family and a dad because dad always went out with friends and no time at all for kids. This was the only thing I hid from him since 2 years and I was like now he knows everything about me and I'm not hiding anything. That's how I started to earn on my own. He said me he'd protect me ( he started behaving like Mr prince charming suddenly) etc but I was like not needed, my bro takes care of me and mom.

I’m 24, ever since I moved to my own studio & driving at 23 parents have been angry that I’m an adult. They don’t treat me with respect or like adult, if I don’t do what they say , mom talks over me yells super loud to win me. she don’t listen a word at all. Mom curses at me tells me shut up, idiot, or fuck you. dad laughs in angry way as I say I’m adult rolling his eyes. they think 24 is a 5 year old. they don’t get most girls at 24 have babies. they never call or bother siblings that are married. they only talk to them 1 time a year. they want see me broke, crying for mom like baby. they don’t want see me strong healthy not sick & living alone. i don’t see 24-28 year old crying for thier mommy. parents don’t see me cuz they miss me, I saw them yesterday & all they ddI was try control me interfere in my life. get angry wen they don’t get thier way. it was 2 months I don’t see them but think now I will not see them one year or half year. each time I see them I come home crying misery depresed. They defend a toxic guy that is my ex and still talk to him daily and love him. Who defends a random bad guy and not thier daughter? they don’t respect & stop talking of that person. they love him & are brainwashed. They crossed the line, I cannot forgive parents that don’t defend their daughter. no parents do this. Mom called me demanding pick me up to go to Thanksgiving at brothers house far away with his wife, I was working & she didn’t care & just demanded pick me up like I’m a toy or baby, we fought & she cursed at me. Who gets cuz I’m working? wtf is wrong with that? im an adult I don’t need go see married bro n wife. I’m an adult women. What if I want be with my man and not bro n wife? i no longer sit in parents car while they fight. No grown adult does that either.