My ex boyfriend of 8-9 months broke up with me about two weeks ago. We had been arguing over small things and ultimately that led to his decision. When he broke up I begged him to stay, the next day I texted hey and he drove 1.5 hours over to cuddle me, and refused to get back together. I cried and begged and left me. He said we could talk tomorrow and never responded to my texts or calls the next day. A day later he said it was a breakup and he didn’t know what to tell me. I begged him for a break and he said okay a break is fair. I didn’t text him for about a week (this past weekend) and he said that it’s a breakup, he doesn’t love me like he used to, he’s burnt out, he used to think I was the one for him, and that I should move on and not wait for him as he wants to be alone and focus on himself. He said he hadn’t taken the time to think about us as he wants to avoid feelings. He never met up with me after but finally caved and gave me a call and hung up saying he didn’t know why he called. And then we spoke this past Monday and told me to delete his number and to not count on him anymore. He says he still has affection for me, take it how I want, but he doesn’t have the energy to try anymore, maybe in a few months, but he doesn’t want to think about it. I asked him to block me and he said okay if it’s what I want, I said yes so I can not hope anymore: and he told me to not hope and that he’s made up his mind. He didn’t block me and later said he doesn’t see why he would do that. But I should move on. I never responded since and deleted him off my phone. Will he ever reach out? His birthday is next month and I was thinking of sending him a message on Facebook but i don’t know if I should. Just curious as to whether you guys think we could reconcile or if we would be back together again?
Will my ex reach out to me?
