My ex boyfriend seemed to be a covert narcissist. He love bombed me to get attached to him, gave me promises that he didn't keep, introduced me to his family the second we met up.
Out of nowhere, he started to talk about his previos s*x life (full of weird sh*t) and said some nasty things to me, not allowing me to set any boundaries.
One time he even tried to strangle me and it was horrifying. He put the blanket on me and didn't let me out and he sickly enjoyed me shouting to make him stop.
Before all that, we used to talk for hours on the phone and he would text me daily but then he cut off our communication and gave me excuses for his behavior.
We had an on and off relationship. I was trying to break up but he kept hoovering me back into his life and I allowed all that because I was trauma bonded. I probably gaslit my own self to stay with him.
When I broke up last time, he didn't try to reach out. Then 2 months passed and he called me. I told him to stop bothering me. He started apologizing again, wishing to make up and start over. Then after 3 days he ghosted me.
Later I found out his previous relationship from a mutual friend (my best friend from hs, his childhood friend). He would say to me that he never had a serious thing with anyone before me, which was another lie. So I heard this girl also had gone through a lot of sh*t due to him, then she dumped him.
So I did something petty and sent him some voice messages and humiliated him about his previous relationship. I said that I told his childhood friend everything about his nasty fetish (he had a sissy thing.) I also said to him that he's a big loser and probably the worst kisser ever. Then I blocked him on Whatsapp. He called my number like 10 times.
Then I found out that he blocked me from every app. Do you think he'll ever try to reach out? I don't think so but I want to know your opinions.
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Depends on him but you need to stop responding if he does. Don't even tell him to stop just have some damn self control n say nothing.
Yeah, I know I shouldn't even have responded but I won't this time if he tries to reach out. I feel like I really got under his skin because he'd never blocked me before. So I hope he's done this time.
Sorry, to many red flags with that guy, so I say forget about him and move on to better things.
I know, I don't want him anymore, just wondering if this is the end for him as well since I never got a closure from him
Make sure its the end.
It is for me, not sure if it is for him but i hope so