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My sister was telling me about this tonight. My sister is a bit of a stuck up bitch, if I'm honest, but I'm wondering if she's right about this. I'm paraphrasing, but she basically said that women will sometimes flirt with and date guys who aren't as desirable as the woman actually wants, to work her way up to guys she actually wants to date.

Think of like flirting with or dating the chubby but nice guy to see if you can land a better guy down the road. I'm a little bit chubby myself, and she was saying I need to lose weight. I hear what she's saying, and I agree that I need to lose weight, but the dudes I see getting girls (girls at least as hot as the kind who show interest in me), are at least as heavy as me. Because of that reason, and some other life experiences that I have had, I just don't think my weight matters that much in dating. I am open to being wrong though.

Do women actually do this? How much of a turn off is it for a guy to have a belly and love handles?

Sure, I am still young, well sort of. But realize that I have never called a girl my girlfriend all throughout my middle school, high school, college-age years, and beyond, except for a week, but it was awkward and she turned into a trangender dude a few years later.

Moat men and women have had at least a significant other, if not multiple exes and current boyfriend/gfs by now.

Fuck, even a lot of people are getting engaged and married at my age, yet I have never had an actual girlfriend. One one my good friends is already married by age 21.

My biggest set back is that I cannot get over a woman's romantic past, especially relationships she formed when she was younger. I will always stick by that and for reasons I believe are good.

In addition, I am an Aspie and still live at home and on disability. I am probably a late bloomer in maturity and many other aspects of life too.