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I've been seeing a lot of stories recently about men who were on the run for a crime and living under assumed names and their own wives didn't even know.

One man robbed a bank when he was young, and he never got caught and lived under an assumed name his whole life, and only told his family his crime and real name when he was on his death bed.

Another man raped a co-worker almost two decades ago, and was on the run and living under an assumed name the entire time, and his wife only found out about it when he was finally caught by police.

Maybe it's just me, but trust and loyalty are extremely important to me. My conscience would never allow me to decieve someone to that degree, and also, I wouldn't marry a woman I couldn't trust with that kind of sensitive information to begin with.

It's truly saddening that someone could be THAT selfish to stoop to that kind of level of deception! Why would they even marry someone they didn't trust? I were those women I would have been furious and heartbroken and would probably never be able to trust another man again.

I know some people who won't let you take out their trash cans while they're away on vacation, and I know others who have an "open door" policy where they allow and encourage others to enter their homes at any time without any warning.

So, how much privacy do you like in your own home?

For me, it depends on the person. For some people (even for a few who think I'm their friend), I don't want them to ever know where I live. For others, I'm happy to invite them over. And if we're really close to each other and we're "ride or die" friends, all you need to to is knock on the door and maybe wait a few minutes or give a quick call to let me know you're showing up on my doorstep.

Now, if you're really super close to me (and Raine) and you're one of the few people we share almost everything with, you probably have a key to our house and you're welcome to walk in even if it means interrupting our lovemaking by knocking on the bedroom door. Just don't make the latter bit a habit.