To anyone reading this thanks for taking the time of your day to concider helping me It means a lot that there are kind people out there and you have my upmost appreciation.
I'm not someone who normally likes to ask others for help, but I'm in a bit of an emotional state right now not sure what I should do, and have noone I feel comfortable talking to right now.
A bit of background I have never had a true relationship with another girl before as I've aloways been an introvert and found it difficult to get Into relationships. So I've never experienced the emotions or anything that are a part of that process.
So there's this girl who I knew form high-school years back, who I liked, we've kept in touch, for years. Well recently I finally asked this girl out and we dated for the first time or so I thought. I knew I already liked her but I came to find out that she didn't see our meet up as a date but as a friendly hangout.
But later I also foud out while playing an online game with her and another friend of hers, that this other guy likes her because he literally confessed to her in the same chat as me.
Later after arguing with the guy fighting over her I got into a private chat with her and discussed the situation. She told me not to worry about the other guy because she doesn't like him, and that she, s actually been talking with but hadn't yet met up with someone else, she's not sure of yet. In regards to me she said she does like me but only sees me as a friend right now but might be interested in the possibility of something more in the future.
I'm just in complete shock right now and have no idea what to do, this whole situation just makes me feel like I'm gonna throw up. It's like a mixture of all kinds of emotions, for the first time in many years I cried in my own bed waiting to fall asleep. I still I'm keeping in contact and she still has interest in hanging out, is it possible I might still have a chance? What should I do.
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There is always a chance if you are motivated and stay positive.
I try to but it's not easy, this is the first person who I truly felt the beginning of a potential true love for, and she's telling me she's interested in somone else she's supposedly only been chatting with online so far. It just makes me feel all kinds of emotions. I'm not mad at her and explained to her that I care for her no matter what even if we're just friends. But it's not easy to accept that this person who I thought for sure was the one for me is not an option. It just makes me feel sad, and it's going to be hard to start over and find someone else as specialy like her.