Did I lose my chance with this girl?

[Anonymous]

I met this girl in a party we hit it of right away. Didn't ask for her number and I regret it. Met her the second time in a party, we danced and we made out. She told let's go to your place and I told her my place is messy. We went to a hotel. We had sex. I asked her out the next day to come to my place. I cleaned it but I admit it is still a mess. She was shocked cause my place was very messy. I was in a toxic relationship for two years and my depression made me a very careless unorganized person. I also still have my ex stuff in my place. My ex doesn't have a place where she can put her stuff and she asked me if she can keep them until December. Don't be harsh on me cause I am already devastated how I lost a girl like her. Do you think texting the girl will make her change her mind. She said she really like me but the standards of the place is not what I expected.

[Summeroflove]

You shouldn’t just be sleeping around. If you want a quality woman. You need to find a woman who isn’t all about sex. If you just want sex. Those women are going the other direction.

I am sorry about your mental health. You need a professional to help you.

[Noahzaid]

Are you sure that this is not a rebound?

[Asker]

Nope. I kept my ex things because she can't take them back

[Noahzaid]

Then clean yourself out and ask the girl to meet again.

[In_Trance]

yup. move on

[Asker]

I really like her

[In_Trance]

you fucked up