I bumped the car of the girl I like, have I lost my chance with her?

[Anonymous]

We work in different companies but we share the parking lot. Today while backing out I lightly bumped her front: it's not a big damage, just a slight scratch under the light. I immediately phoned her (we exchanged numbers) apologizing and offering to repay the damage. She came out, checked the car and said to not worry, it's already got many bumps and scratches, what's one more, she can't even see it.

I insisted and she said she's not taking her car to the shop for that little thing but if I really want to compensate her I can buy her lunch or drinks next time.

What do you say? Did I burn my chances or does she still like me?

[WindAtMyBack]

My brother got a date by hitting a girl's car once. He hit her car (more than a little scratch). They exchanged info abut the accident. He asked her out, and she accepted.

" if I really want to compensate her I can buy her lunch or drinks next time. "

You can't get much more clear. You should jump on that asap.

[Anonymous]

Her comment 'if I really want to compensate her I can buy her lunch or drinks next time.'

Sounds like she's turning it into an opportunity for you. This is assuming you will be together / next to each other while eating.

[Asker]

She was super chill about it. She said I got the worst it because my car is kinda new.
We often eat lunch together but we never went out for drinks

[Opinion Owner]

Then it's likely she is using it as an opportunity. However, I must warn you. Your mentality of 'have I lost my chances with her?' suggests you see her as above you. That mindset will kill all / any attraction in time. This is a very common mindset for most men, one that has been programmed in eons ago...

[Guy13]

Grind it out and then Wax it

[Guy13]

It depends if you admit to it and repair as well as how long ago this happened?

[Asker]

Today while backing out I lightly bumped her front: it's not a big damage, just a slight scratch under the light. I immediately phoned her (we exchanged numbers) apologizing and offering to repay the damage. She came out, checked the car and said to not worry, it's already got many bumps and scratches, what's one more, she can't even see it.
I insisted and she said she's not taking her car to the shop for that little thing but if I really want to compensate her I can buy her lunch or drinks next time

[Guy13]

You could have stopped at insisted and dropped her in the backseat as she was ready then. Parking garage guys and closed circuit cameras would have had a good time.
She’s already hot bumps and bruises what’s one more…. Example of man not attending to Womanese

[slatyb]

She definitely l likes yoy. She asked you out.

[leahzrc]

It was either a blessing or a curse. Work with it.

[misogynistic_pig]

Yes.